Horny right now, help me get through this

I just get used to the feeling, it's not going away any time soon. you just got to learn to live with it, and deny it. don't give into it. but as for the feeling going away, that takes a little bit of time, if you have been Fapping a lot. but I am on day three and all I can think about is a big O. and I can not do it either, so you are not alone.

 

don't look at porn. there is not a whole lot you can do, for me any way, going on a bike ride, exersize, really is not a replacement, I just have to live with these feelings, and that is why I want to go 90 days, and not masturbate again, so I do not have these huge feelings down there in my pants, and in my mind. but I will get off the computer now. that just keeps the stuff going,

 

nighty night

 

Tell us if you stayed clean when you wake up.

About me: It goes away with time. If you binge, it just gets stronger until it eats you up completely. I had a really long streak and now I also have the same feeling like you. Whatever I do, it stays, but goes after a while. Believe me, it will go away completely at one point. You will simply live with it, it will get so insignificant that you will even not bother thinking to it.

 

Try a cold shower. Remember that the urge will pass.

 

Think of all the time wasted if you start all the way back to day 1 again for just 3 seconds of pleasure. Dunno how many days you're into this but I guess it is longer than 3 seconds. So you make a very bad deal giving in for yourself...

 

Punch yourself in the dick and move forward.

 

Toothpaste showers work WONDERS!

 

Take a cold shower. Get out of the house and go for a walk/run. Create a plan so next time you are feeling this way you can enact it immediately without thinking. Call you parents or a friend just to talk. Go to a cafe or a store that is open and just walk around until the feeling passes. I hope this helps. Stay strong!

 

I laughed to hard at this.

 

It's never too late to punch yourself in the dick. You can still do it now, then pick yourself up off the ground and move forward. You will go longer than 39 days but not if you give into self-pity and mope around in relapse land. Plus you're an addict, why are you surprised by a relapse? Be more surprised that you made it to 11 days.

It is really fucking hard because it's really fucking worth it.

 

Don't fall into relapse-binge. Continue to abstain right now. What helps me a lot (i am just in day 9, but really do not feel in danger of relapse since 4 or 5 days) is to understand that it really is an addiction. We just can not watch porn, because we are addicts. Other people can. We can not. Many people drink, an aloholic can not. This is addiction. Shake of that guilty-shameful feeling and GO THE FUCK ON. You have it in you to do this.