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How long is recovery?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by blunt.ever, Nov 11, 2019.

  1. Nov 11, 2019 #1
    blunt.ever

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    I am 19 years old and I am a virgin. About a week ago, I went to a college colleague. She doesn't know this about me, I don't want to tell her. We kissed, etc. but I had no erection at all. That woke me up to the reality of starting nastapo, in fact to stop masturbating forever because it does not lead to anything good. With that girl I apologized for not feeling well, but she is very excited and still insist on going over to her. But I still do not feel quite prepared and excited, I am in the 10th day. I don't know what to do, how long do I wait? How long after your abstinence did your penis recover? I am in a hurry and I don't know how much to postpone it.
     
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  2. Nov 11, 2019 #2
    Hesychast

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    Being nervous for your first time is 100% natural. There's nothing wrong with saying you're a virgin either in my opinion- it might actually make it easier. She'll probably appreciate it. I lost my virginity when I was 19 as well; I told the girl I'd never done it before and she actually became MORE excited.

    Go easy on yourself, you'd probably be super nervous even if you weren't abstaining. Those nerves and the 'flatline' effect a lot of people experience in the first couple of weeks would probably be combining for you right now.
     
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  3. Nov 11, 2019 #3
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    The first time I had sex I was also nervous, I couldn't get an orgasm at all...after that little by little I was able to finish.
     
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  4. Nov 11, 2019 #4
    blunt.ever

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    What I want to say is that at the moment I do not feel the need. But maybe in the bedroom, things will change and I will be much more excited. You did not happen to be excited in general, but in the bedroom to be excited? I think maybe things will change.
     
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  5. Nov 11, 2019 #5
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    For me it has helped to imagine how the sex will go. So I imagine how she undresses, then what we do, how we touch and so on and then I start to expect that, then it happens easily.
     
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