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How serious is my case? Hoping to get some advice as I'm freaking out right about now

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by 37yohelp, Mar 23, 2022.

  1. 37yohelp

    37yohelp New Fapstronaut

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    I'm not sure if other people share my fear but my main concerns are

    1) I hope it's not a serious medical issue and
    2) If it's not medical, I hope it's not permanent and irreversible

    I'm going this weekend to the doctor for a health checkup just to rule out any medical issues.

    I just spent all day reading about PIED and now realize this sounds like me. I knew things weren't going in the right direction but I didn't realize it was as bad as they are now.

    Here's a quick summary:
    - I've always had performance issues during sex (finishing too quickly) so I turned to porn to help me last longer but not being as horny when I finally do have sex
    - Over the years I realize that turned into an addiction to the point where I now basically watch porn as a hobby.
    - I can get an erection while watching porn but it takes longer and only after I start masturbating and forcing it (whereas before just opening up a porn site used to give me an erection)
    - For a very long time now, I've had issues where I lose an erection during sex while wearing a condom
    - Things have progressively gotten worse and now I'm having issues having sex most of the time. I still manage to get hard during a blow job (although not as easily as I should) but as soon as I try having sex, I go flacid. If I go a few days without porn/masturbating and have sex, I can usually get hard (I think) and have sex (because by then I'm very horny) although I will likely cum very quickly or possibly lose my erection quickly
    - Overall I just have a hard time getting and maintaining an erection during sex now

    So for obvious reasons I'm freaking out right now. If it's purely PEID and giving up porn and fapping is going to reverse my situation, then I can deal with that.


    Just looking to get any advice
     
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  2. from2003

    from2003 Fapstronaut

    Bro , everything will be okay , but first you need to quit watching porn and masturbation , your body will heal even at your worst you just need to provide some time for healing process , and you have PIED(PORN INDUCED ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION ) where the person only get erection while watching porn and in real partner not at all , my friend had similar disorder and he was very scared cause his wife never satisfied , he was literally thinking about to do suicide cause of the depressing order , but after concerning with sexual disorder treatment doctor he find out the cure and it was no watch porn and no lapse and take proper and healthy diet , stress free avoid watching unrealistic stuff like vedio or model , and the time period was almost 2 and half year than he satisfied the partner and after 9 month they both got beautiful girl , and they are living there life at fullest.
    And believe me you tooo just control your urges , and watching porn ,

    You can stay with your wife and tell her about your issue and cure as well , I believe that she will understand definitely . and wait for the triumph destination .

    You can do cuddle and sleep together with her , talk with her , make laugh with her .

    Sex isn't everything.

    I know it is hard but you can
     
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  3. RRPhealing

    RRPhealing Fapstronaut

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    I've read some articles, I recommend a 90 day dopamine (Inc porn) fast
     

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