Hey. I'm 24yo- still virgin. I am not gonna tell you all my shit story , the main reason why am I doing it is my virginity and lack of confidence when it comes to dating with girls. I think that my virginity is not 100% PMO effect, there are other factors but who cares. I think it is not too late yet... I am actually on day 60 and my journey was quite simple, I haven't got brain fogs, my concentration and clear thinking is good, only one day with blue balls, no superpowers( maybe little bit?), I feel numbness and I feel like I can last without porn forever. I realized better eye contact with people, and I am starting to feel much more confident. BUT.. there is only one thing that makes me so depressed and I am fucking worry a lot about it. It is PREMATURE EJACULATION.. I know... I haven't been with girl yet so I am not sure if there is a problem but look at that: Before I started nofap challenge I tried a lot of different things. More than year ago I started doing jelq, stretching, etc., I stopped daily masturbations- only one per week, but still watched porn. At the May 2019 I stopped penis exercises, bought fleshlight pussy and started to train sexual intercourse and to last as long as I can. I had few good days that I could last almost 1 hour, but everything went down and finally I couldn't last few thrusts. Every thrust=IK and urge to cum. I decided to stop everything, no porn, no fleshlight training, masturbation- nothing. I only did some kegel/ reverse kegels but not in routine. Today I was cleaning my room and found this fucking fleshlight, I putted my dick inside, 1 thrust and immediately little drop of cum went out. It was just a little tiny drop, fortunately I was able to stop that orgasm feeling. What should I do? I am doing this nofap to be more confident and to change my life but my confidence will never boost because of this fucking PreE that is still in my mind. How can I repair myself without touching my dick?
You need to be able to ignore the worry and keep your mind busy on healing and the positive aspects of what you are going to accomplish. I will say that PE is likely to get to be an issue for a time as you reboot. Your sensitivity will return at the same time urges go through the roof. Do not panic, this will calm down in time and you will get to where you need to be.
I think your premature ejaculation might rather be an effect of being too much under psycologic stress, but of being untrained. There's no need to worry, if your girlfriend (you'll hopefully find soon) loves you she doesn't mind.
My dick is extremely ticklish, especially the glans, every touch= BC contraction and my whole dick jumps which leads me to the ejaculation ( I always used to masturbate dry by moving only my foreskin and it was very simple, I could last long.) Do you think that it is nervous system failure which can be repaired with time on nofap, or is it physical dysfunction that I have to learn how to deal with it?
