I can watch porn and not get aroused

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quezatolah, Dec 1, 2021.

  1. It is Finished

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    Ok? And what makes you think you’ll be able to stop the response when you’re faced with an intense urge or you’re in a stressful situation looking for relief? Is it hard for you to comprehend that 1 incident, or even multiple incidents, doesn’t mean jack shit in the grand scheme of things, because emotional and physical states change?
    how exactly are you sure that it’s helping you if you’re only on day 2... Do you think scientists study something for 1 day and come to a conclusion and publish a paper on it? Seriously man, just delete this post, and when you’ve reached 100 days using this method, then please come back and tell us.
     
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  2. Well then find some new hobbies. Set some goals for yourself. And why are you still watching porn. Like I get why your doing it but for how long are you going to keep this up? You are a human being, so of course you're going to have primal instincts. DO you think you're going to never going to want sex ever again? You're just making yourself suffer more with this approach to NoFap.

    And of course your going to hit roadblocks on this journey. It's part of the reboot process. Your progress isn't completely erased.

    Take a look at this article from yourbrainonporn.com

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/too...m-porn-addiction/rebooting-basics-start-here/
     
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  3. Quezatolah

    Quezatolah Fapstronaut

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    Man you just keep going on about bullshit, I told you we'll see, I don't know for sure because I can't see the future but I think there is a high probability I will surpass my previous streak using this method, I'm sure this is the way forward for me, if you don't agree then go ahead and get on your own streak and we'll see who is better off in the end.
     
  4. Quezatolah

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    I'm not watching porn anymore.
     
  5. Quezatolah

    Quezatolah Fapstronaut

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    I don't care about these people who keep asking the same questions multiple times.

    If I can help one person who reads this thread then it will have been worth it, also I like to make threads just so I can read my own ideas and reflect on them.
     
  6. Rostrock47

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    You clearly don't know anything about the lizard and precortex brain.. With every single second you watch porn your proper decision making ability gets weaker and weaker, thus you're not able to think rationally which leads to watching more porn as you flush your body sistem with dopamine rush, activating receptors in the brain responsible for feeling pleasure.. In conclusion, you'll relapse 1000 times with this method
     
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  7. Rostrock47

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    You're contradicting yourself way too much..
     
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  8. Quezatolah

    Quezatolah Fapstronaut

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    I'm not, you're either slow or you just don't care to read the OP.
     
  9. PrioritySystem

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    I think it’s interesting that you’re trying new stuff and have the balls to swim against the nofap current. Brave people coming up with their own ideas and just going for it will always be rewarded one way or the other.

    And I even think you might be on to something.

    It could succeed on the long term but that would depend on a few other variables as well. If you somehow get to know multiple girls/women and learn the person behind the body then it will in the meantime help making you realise how plastic and fake porn is, I think.
     
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  10. Quezatolah

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    Finally a constructive comment, I've had it with all these naysaying motherfuckers, I don't even care if this fails, the fact that I'm trying a new idea that worked for me while watching porn is worth exploring.

    To be clear, I'm not going to watch porn all the time, yesteday is the last time I'm ever watching porn as far as I'm concerned. I only did it to test this method and I can train this method without watching porn, it can be applied to sexual fantasies, urges and everything in between.
     
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  11. mentorr

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    Here I am on a forum that champions a healthy, positive lifestyle through the exile of porn addiction. On the exact same forum; posts pushing a strategy to watch porn without becoming aroused! :emoji_joy::emoji_joy::emoji_joy:
     
  12. Candun

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    His goal seems to be the ability to exercise complete control over your response to sexual stimuli, removing the need to fear or avoid the "triggers" that inevitably exist. (That's how I interpret the post).

    I disagree with using P specifically to practice this as I believe its unnecessarily harmful (especially when you do it for hours) but I understand why he did it. I think a lot of people are missing the point of this post and believe he is advocating continuous P use when he stated that he dosent plan to watch it anymore.
     
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  13. mentorr

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    Re-reading the original post I actually take what I said back. I do understand the approach that's being taken. Certainly would not recommend it, but I understand the overall goal after taking another read.

    Retracting my original statement on this.
     
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  14. Rostrock47

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    I've read all your posts, you fool, and you said you watch porn because you found out that it helps you with your streak and then you said you don't watch it anymore.. Decide which one, you're a terrible liar anyway..
     
  15. Rostrock47

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    Why would you ever consider taking such crazy approach? Watch porn for hours without mo, I don't get it..
     
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  16. Rostrock47

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    If anyone of you tries this method, I'm gonna punch you right in the face, I'm tired of this guy posting and trolling everyone convincing how this method of watching porn without jerking off is useful. Porn is and will be harmful. End of story.. SO LET'S MOVE ON! WE'VE GOT BETTER THINGS TO DO!!!!
     
  17. It is Finished

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    I'm already on it, and I will gladly accept your challenge.
     
  18. devsMind

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    0,03$ from my side-I don’t think there is real value in throwing curses and not respecting each other-I guess that all of us want on a base level something good and meaningful for ourselves and other Fapstronauts which certainly can generate some emotions and tensions, but at the end of the day we want to reach same goal.

    For sure this thread is probably one of lets call it “controversial ones” and that certainly made discussion far more spicy, still instead of trying to convert all people around us to think like we lets just throw bunch of time and let it be judge.

    Throwing some Buddha-style (not his true words, but compatible with teachings) quote which hopefully further increase value of this thread:
    “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of harming another;U end up getting burned.”
     
  19. Quezatolah

    Quezatolah Fapstronaut

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    Exactly, and whether it succeeds or fails it's my journey, I'll just try something else, I don't see how it's anyone's business to keep going on about this topic.

    Everyone: this isn't good I think you will fail.
    Me: Cool, let's see what happens.
     
  20. Please update us in the future if this strategy worked or not. Me, and everyone else, are genuinely curious.