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I Feel like only porn can fill the lonliness

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by wantmucles, Oct 19, 2022.

  1. wantmucles

    wantmucles New Fapstronaut

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    I feel like recently women haven’t really been that interesting because of porn I mean sure I think they are attractive, but not to the extent of dating them. Am I broken? Cause it feels like I should care about things like this. And porn is not helping either , only feeding this emptiness and making me more and more self aware . NoFap seems to be the right place but what am I supposed to do when I’m doing all the right habits and it’s still falling flat and it feels like porn just fills that partner gap more and more each day as I become too lazy to try and get out there. I’d like to say this is the fault of my ex but it was a mutual breakup and I still love and respect her or am I just trying to get over the only person who truly gave my life meaning?
     
  2. bloudermilk24

    bloudermilk24 Fapstronaut

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    yeah i feel like i havent been interested in a woman in forewver day 3 and feel nothing
     
  3. wantmucles

    wantmucles New Fapstronaut

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    Is that like a Sid effect of withdrawal
     
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  4. from2003

    from2003 Fapstronaut

    Fuck porn fuck loneliness fuck girls , fuck responsibility , fuck stress , fuck masturbation fuck pain fuck friends fuck da world , fuck feelings and fuck me too
     
  5. FormerLeatherneck

    FormerLeatherneck Fapstronaut

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    When you sedate yourself with masturbation and porn it kills all your motivation and you do become lazy, and it’s a vicious cycle if you continue.

    You’ll absolutely have little to no desire to go out there and even meet or talk to people. You’ll likely stay home and even suffer from a self induced depression as well.
     
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  6. AbTheAb

    AbTheAb Fapstronaut

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    You know very well that porn will only dig a bigger hole, a temporary relief that you have to pay for sooner or later, same with alcohol and same with any drug.

    But it's never just porn that is the cause of problems, it's the chicken or egg thing, not easy to tell if porn is causing the depression or if depression is causing the porn addiction.

    Honestly, I think if you do not revise the way you think about women and spend time to learn their nature, you are going to be used and abused again, and again, and again.. The same way you have been used up by your "ex".

    From the way you describe her, the breakup doesn't seem to be truly "mutual", your life should have a meaning without worshipping a woman.
    Generally speaking, women like to keep their options open. So that they can get back to a guy if they couldn't get what they want from the newer guy or what they hope to get or are out of better options.

    Do not ever make the mistake of thinking that men and women think in the same way, they do not!
    Move on brother!
     
  7. Are you lonely because of porn?
    Or did you start using porn because you were lonely?
     
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