I have a problem with mature women

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by p1p2, May 13, 2021.

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Do you have the same problem?

Poll closed May 13, 2022.
  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. p1p2

    p1p2 Fapstronaut

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    I think that because of pornography I feel a sexual desire, even lust, for these types of women. It's like looking for a mother ... Has anyone managed to solve this problem?

    Sometimes I try to connect with them through chats or apps, but I feel weird

    I've been NoFap for 12 days and going up
     
  2. eagle rising

    eagle rising Fapstronaut

    First, I don't know if it's a "problem" in my eyes. Second, if it was a problem for me I don't know if I "solved" it. I am married married to an older woman. We clicked right from the beginning.

    I have some questions:
    • When you say mature, what age range are talking about?
    • Are you only interested in their physicality?
    • Is there something more than their physicality?
    • Also, if you don't mind answering, how old are you? (perhaps at least an age range if you're not comfortable disclosing that)
    • Is it pure fantasy?
    • Are you seeking a relationship?
    • Is there trauma with such a person?
    There is so much behind this "problem". You don't have to answer these questions if you don't want. Just some things to consider at least for yourself.
     
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  3. p1p2

    p1p2 Fapstronaut

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    Hi Eagle! I respond your questions:

    1. 40-60
    2. Yes, I think that is my mind, that creates fantasies
    3. I think that i would like that they make me feel like their son, and if you think, this is so weird... :'(
    4. 20-25
    5. Yes... I believe that is pure fantasy, i watched a lot of mom-son porn...
    6. Even if I looked for it, I would not find it, I think I'm not worth that
    7. No, I have no trauma with my mother or matures women

    I believe that is for the porn, and i created this thead to check this
     
  4. eagle rising

    eagle rising Fapstronaut

    Well, as a fellow former P user I would agree with you, based on what you shared. But, I am no therapist or psychologist. If you really want to know you may have to find a sex addiction counselor. If you don't want to or can't find a sex addiction counselor I believe just abstaining from porn will help clear up that fantasy. But, one should not rule out other factors haplessly.
     
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  5. p1p2

    p1p2 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks Eagle!
     
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