I might have my first GF and it is making things hard

I really like this girl, and I'm more attracted to her than any other girl in my life before. She feels the same.

I am currently on a day 14 streak, and being with her all creates heat in my body.

I am trying to practice sperm retention, and before her and our making out began everything was fine, but now every morning I wake up with a lot of precum, due to spending the last night kissing her.

I already had a wet dream on day 9 due to fantasizing about having her in my arms while laying to sleep.

I really want to go 3-6 months without ejaculating at all, and I don't want to let her go either, I think I have a fair shot at a beautiful relationship with her (we both have so much in common and connect more than anyone I've ever connected with) but I don't want to have wet dreams due to her.

After spending time kissing her, once I get home, I feel heat in my head, like tension, and I know it is a sexual energy heat because I only feel it after getting aroused from her.

Also I can feel a flatline approaching right now and I don't know how that will go while being with her.

Is there anyway I can keep kissing her without having wet dreams?

BTW - I have watched porn for 8 years starting at 15. Also I believe I have a case of of PIED, because kissing her never gives me an erection but does give me precum. BUT! I know it is PIED because I wake up every morning with a raging morning wood.

One good thing I can say is being with her makes me give zero fucks about porn, I am never tempted to watch it or masturbate because I'm too into her.

 

You're right, it doesn't, I had sex with her twice this past Saturday, and I lasted for more than 45 + mins. In fact I didn't ejaculate at all! I just didn't have to, I could control myself. And I didn't finish on purpose, in order to retain my sperm. LOL.

My goal is to simply 1) overcome porn and it's harmful effects, 2) push myself further into achieving my goals through the principles of sperm retention

I had no PIED. Actually I did. But when she took my virginity, I would lose my erection 1-2 times over our ~50 minute or so sex session, I just told her to jack me off to bring my erection back, and it worked.

You're so right man, but I can worry about both now, because I didn't ejaculate during sex, and I felt like I could last forever. It wasn't Delayed ejaculation though, because I could feel that if I let go, I would have ejaculated.