I need your help guys !!! Getting sick of these wet dreams

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by irock, Apr 16, 2015.

  1. irock

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    Hi guys , it's my day 9 of nofap. In a past couple of tries , I have relapsed around the days 7 - 10. So these days are really critical for me. But this time , wet dreams are destroying my whole nofap journey. In this attempt , it's day 9 and I've already had like 3 wet dreams. I think wet dreams are not good if that frequent and not to mention the chaser effects they produce after a couple of hours. 9 days and 3 wet dreams that's like every 3 days i have a wet dream. Please guys suggest any freaking way to stop or at least reduce the frequency of these wet dreams so that I can move on. Once again , I ain't got any problem from this stuff but I can't just manage so much wet dreams in my first week only.

    Some guys said stuff about lucid dreaming and all which I have no idea. But now I'm trying that thing and it will take some time to master the lucid dreaming art. The only thing which I think works for me is to sleep on my back which is easy to say but impossible to do. Even if I manage to sleep on my back , I know that after midnight I'll be turning around 180 degrees all the way because that's how i'm sleeping since my childhood.
    Anything is appreciated , please tell me something that has worked for you , I will definitely try that. Best of luck on your nofap journey and thanks in advance!!
     
  2. writer239

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    I hate to tell you man, but there's nothing you can do about the wet dreams. They're completely involuntary and you have no control over them. It's your body's way of releasing sexual tension and built up semen that isn't getting released. All you can do is wait it out. I've never heard of anyone getting as many wet dreams as you in such a small time period, but within the next week or so they should stop as you flatline.

    Just stay strong man. Think about how far you've come. I've never even made it close to 9 days before, so I'm in awe of you right now. If you need to talk or anything don't hesitate to PM me.
     
  3. irock

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    Now , I will just stick to my schedule . I think that waking up early would definitely going to work because all of my wet dreams are after '0700 ' . Thanks for your help bro
     
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  4. blacksunempire

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    Well i have another issue.I had a simple dream and i found my pants wet the next day for no reason!!!And be carefull urges are way bigger after a wet dream!!So cold shower and the big guy will go for sleep again xD
     
  5. Chris1052

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    Man I have no idea how to stop them. I'm almost at 70 days and it seems like the frequency is increasing. I'm having them at least once a week, sometimes 2 or 3 times a week. They really suck and are making my journey really hard lately.
     
  6. mav

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    I am on day 35 of no pmo.I have had no urges to pmo but I have crazy urges to have sex(failed thou).usually I control my dreams ,yes I know weird especially when I am about to nut.Last night though was crazy I dreamt I had an explosive ejaculation and when I woke up I found my boxers and shorts were all wet. Damn I guess that semen was building up like crazy.Curious question has anyone reached a point of just thinking about having sex 24/7 all day but no pmo urges?
     
  7. The gardener

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    Some glasses of wine before bed works fine for me.
     
  8. NewStart2015h

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    Mav I definately have. Every time I quit I flatline for a while, slowly build myself up whilst ignoring sexual urges and then get incredibly horny. Like I want to have sex with literally anyone and anything. Weird though I really don't have the urge to watch porn at all.

    I end up trawling escort pages and stuff like that so I find it really unhealthy. This time I am trying really hard to control it. I feel like even though it's not porn, I don't think I can reboot if I constantly sexualising every girl I see
     
  9. JayT79

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    I hope I'm not hijacking this thread but what exactly is a wet dream like...I haven't had one since my early preteen years..its been that long and I'm 35 now and have been 10 of no PMO by the way :)
     
  10. Cute Hipster

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    Empty Your Bladder Before Bed Helps in Preventing Wet Dream nd Try to Avoid Sexual Thoughts during Day time

    Last thing Don'T Drink Any thing before bed
     
  11. Dailydoer

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    Your body has perhaps learnt to make a lot of sperm because of your frequent ejaculation in the past. As of right now, it's still making it at the same rate but you're holding it in. It will take some time and then you'll be back to normal again (with fewer wet dreams). They are involuntary and a sign of a healthy man. Btw, I like wetdreams. They are much powerful than MO. I know u have to deal with the pyjamas but that is just me lol. Stay strong and don't PMO
     

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