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If you have relapsed recently - Read this short Message

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Theseeker19, Nov 12, 2019.

  1. Theseeker19

    Theseeker19 Fapstronaut

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    If you have relapsed recently I want you to read this short message.

    The takeaway is that I will be prepared next time, realizing that after a few days I will feel those withdrawal feelings again, and that’s ok, it’s weakness leaving the body, and to just breath and carry on with what I need to do that day, not sit there and entertain the notion of PMO. I don’t want to fall for the lies again.
    There will be moments of absolute beauty, understanding, and peace throughout the initial recovery. There will also be moments of intense depression, anxiety, fear, and abandon. The key to making it through these moments is to remind yourself that all things are temporary and these emotions will pass, no matter how intense.
    The most important thing is to Don’t stay inside your head for too long. Don’t dwell on any negative feelings for a prolonged period of time. Experience it, feel it fully, and then move on. Stay PRESENT focused whenever possible. Do not obsess over the past.
    You have to take responsibility for your life, your failures, and your current situation. You were a victim. You fell into a trap. Both of these things are true. But now you are aware of the trap and you have to start taking responsibility for your selfish addict past. Specific repeated choices have led you to this point. The same ability to chose healthy living and recovery will lead you out of this dark place.
     
    Last edited: Nov 12, 2019
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  2. Riot02

    Riot02 Fapstronaut

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    Bro u inspired me I can't make the same mistakes that I've done in the past. I need to do something instead of urges trying to convince me to relape. Thank you. It's very nice to give advice and give powerful quotes not just to yourself but to others who r in the same path as you and me are.
     
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  3. Theseeker19

    Theseeker19 Fapstronaut

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    Always happy to help. Let's go and smash this addiction once and for all. stay blessed ;)
     
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  4. Beamer

    Beamer Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    @Theseeker19 : Thank you for sharing this, it's 100% true, much appreciated ! :)
     
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