I'm too confused about my nofap journey and erectile dsyfunction. Please help

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I have erectile dysfunction probably because of masterbating for 15 years strait, never had a girlfriend, I finally got a girl from Bumble and tried to have sex with her but my dick didn't work, tried same with a prostitute and same my dick didn't work, so I thought of starting 90 days NoFap, Currently it's my day 10, and I'm horny as fuck, should I talk to one of my female friends and arrange a meeting with them, i know if I try I can get into bed with her, or should I go on like this for 90 days and see if my dick is cured. I'm 27 and sometimes I think that holding for 90 days will decrease that time in which I could potentially have sex(now I have a friend who will do it with me if I try, but my thing is not working, atleast it'll give me some practice) or should I complete my 90 days NoFap, so that I can recover fully from my Ed and then go looking for girls.
 
ED is a tricky thing, it's difficult to tell if the ED is caused by a physical issue like too much MO while viewing porn or if it's caused by a psychological issue like worrying too much that you can't get it up.
One way to determine which problem you have is to see if you can get it up by yourself, without looking at porn. If you are waking up with morning wood it usually means it's not a physical problem. Start by determining what's causing the ED.
For sure stay away from porn, that is what caused the ED!
Good luck.
 
I usually had morning wood and even still I have sometimes, didn't really focused on observing that.... Will do that and update you
 
Today I am 6 days without accessing any adult content, Instagram, Facebook, etc. My goal is 90 days. I'm almost the same age as you. 25 years old, and I've been failing with the women I engage with, and it's always very frustrating... that's why I'm committing to the 90 days... to see what happens with my body. I'm quite anxious.
 
euvouconseguir said:
Today I am 6 days without accessing any adult content, Instagram, Facebook, etc. My goal is 90 days. I'm almost the same age as you. 25 years old, and I've been failing with the women I engage with, and it's always very frustrating... that's why I'm committing to the 90 days... to see what happens with my body. I'm quite anxious.
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I did it before once in my life and somehow everything they claim fucking works!! Somehow magically works!!
 
I'd personally go PMO and not really talking that much to women if you know yourself and would try to sleep with them. If you have ED and you are still trying to sleep with women and your tool doesn't work, then you are just running around in a hamster wheel.

I would also not advise 90 days at the start but something smaller like 30 or 45 days. You can test the waters again and if you are getting the same results then try a fresh 90 day cleanse.

I'd also speak with a doctor too and get some checks done just to cover your basis, even if you are young and healthy.
 
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