So. I have a fetish (or gender identity issue) of imagining myself having sex as a woman (exactly being the object of sexual desire). Somewhere I have read that people with transsexual and/or gender identity issues often react for a stressful period of life with transition. I am also noticing that if a stressful period came into my life, this gender identity issue or fetish is stronger and much more hard to handle. I'd like to discuss with you guys the REASON of this. I am wondering WHY is this the reaction to stressful life situations/periods???
Well I think the answer to all problems is Porn. Apart from training ourselves to be voyeurs and reducing our self esteem by watching P everytime. It messes up our sexual orientation. There was a time I though I was gay just because I've seeing unfaced dicks all day dominating women. I ended a relationship for shit like that. This is an addiction and a problem and we need to take seriously. Stay away from any erotic material for a while and try to reconnect with a girl eventually you'll see that having intimacy with another person it's nothing like the fake hateful garbage we see on the internet.
Generally, when we're in a more stressful situation, we look for a way to escape. Something that's more comfortable, and uniquely ours. For you, it may be this. Obviously, there's a lot of debate in society right now over transgenderism. If it does not feel normal to you, you may want to talk to a therapist to work through your stress issues.
Porn does this ! It shapes your thinking & structures your sexual desires,fetishes,fantasy's,etc. etc.
