Is having sex Through your rebooting is a good or bad idea? Im now at the 14 days challenge and i had sex after a week. I know its best to obtain from sex for at least couples of months, but is it really that bad? is that considering a relapse?
It really depends on your relationship. Most due no sex during reboots. If it is a true relationship that you both enjoy sex the all good. Just don't use porn along with sex or just replace your sex life instead of fapping. Sex addiction and porn addiction go hand in hand. The true goal for me at least is a healthy loving relationship with no porn destroying our sex life.
Shouldn't be considered a relapse in my opinion. I think it can help recovery a lot. After a sustained amount of time PMOing the brain is wired to this sexual response instead of a partner. We want it to be responsive to women so it makes sense to me to sleep with women to help the rewiring of the brain. This seems to be the case for younger guys on here who don't have much experience(they need a partner to help them along), whereas older guys can reboot faster because they have sexual experience before porn entered their lives so those pathways already exist. But just be aware that being unable to get it on with a woman during flatline could hurt your confidence and cause other issues related to performance.
