Is it just time to accept I'm gay?

I read your post and understand your confusion. Your comment above is the key: "It feels like I've lost myself through addiction to gay porn." I concur. However, the answer to the question you ask: "Is it just time to accept I'm gay", is NO! The time is right to totally abstain from all masturbation, edging, pornographic pictures, videos and stories and to stop having orgasms. Only by doing this for an extended period, will your original sexual cues and desires be reset to factory settings. After all of that, you will know if you are straight, bi or gay. This^ is your NoFap challenge. Good luck Matthew32.

 

You are gay. But if you are bi just tell the woman for pegging etc. Either way walk on your truth. Life is too short to hide.

Good luck

 

Matthew32
You are not your vice. It may be an aspect of you but don’t define yourself by your vice. Find out who you are. You are meant to be a happy and free man. Defining yourself by what you’ve done limits your identity to just that thing. Stay open.

 

Brother, you are straight by nature and preference. You've just become addicted to gay porn which you can try to resolve through abstinence. You like women and you know it, because they make your rod hard, so be comfortable with your sexuality, broski.

 

im in the same portion ad you but havent had sex with men and dont plan to cause in real like i dont get hard to men . but my pirn tastes are feminine men amd transsxuals

 

Thank you for joining this community and feeling you can be honest with who you are. Also, props for kissing a girl and getting a ready-to-roll member. I can't recall the last time that happened.

I'll chime in with another person who thinks your case is one of HOCD. While we can suggest speaking to a therapist, the best bit of advice I can give is to give yourself 90 days reboot to sort out where you are. I've spent several months talking with a young guy who felt the same way as you, but he couldn't get past three days. In the end, I ended communication because I wasn't doing any good and he wasn't making any effort. Yes, it will be tough, but so will having all the anxiety you've got in your head. If, after 90 days(or longer if you need), you find yourself pointing in one direction, or the other, or both, that should give you clearer signs.

If after 90 days you're just angry at the world, like me, just keep on doing more days.

I hope that helps a little.

 

Give your mind time to get off the porn after that you will probably realize the answer your own question if you think about what you want and like in reality.
Approach it with an open mind and don't worry about what the answer is.