Is it okay if I get an orgasm from my partner's hand job or oral sex or do some kink stuffs?

Hi everyone.

I'm a newbie here. but I have learned about rebooting from my friends and somewhere else.

I do the hard mode (the PMO thing) for a month now (my goal is 3 months). The thing is I have my kinky partner and we love to do bondage, pet play, and impact play with no penetration. She wants to have that kind of sex with me and also loves to do a hand job so much. Sometimes oral sex too.

Is it okay to do that while I'm rebooting? It is difficult for me to say no to her but if it is really necessary, I will try to explain to her somehow.