is seduction wrong and why do so many women use it ?

Depends on what it’s done for! If it’s a girl just seducing you to pull ur legs or have some fun! I think that’s nice but if she’s doing it to get something from you then it could tend to be deceitful, it would be fun for her obviously but now you know you can’t really trust her

 

It also says that she feels you are worth seducing. It is not all bad, especially if you value her too.

 

Not necessarily. I was once head over heels for a woman who turned out to be a legitimate sociopath. Her only goal was to seduce men into falling for her because she got high off the attention men gave her. She didn’t give an actual shit about the things she did or said and once she knew you liked her she would toy with your mind and emotions because it made her feel strong.
Seduction is inherently negative.
Like lust. By it’s very nature it is a force used for destructive and selfish purposes. It insinuates deceit and manipulation at its core.
A woman who is honest, kind & forbearing will not revert to these tactics because she will be genuinely interested in forming an honest relationship.

@19m you are correct and the difference is:
-Honest open attraction is the positive & a virtue. This form is based on mutual sharing and love. It’s beautiful
-Seduction is the deceitful negative and a vice. This form is based in selfishness and greed. It’s ugly

 

Ok. 1. She wasn’t trying to seduce you. 2. She was just walking down the street, minding her own business and going about her business. 3. You started walking alongside a woman you didn’t know for no good reason. You just wanted to bother her. 4. She wasn’t doing anything to you at all. 5. Your behavior towards a stranger you passed walking down the street was completely obnoxious. 5. Would you do this to a man? 6. Why do you feel the need to treat another human being this way? 7. Are you even capable of walking down the street without bothering anyone and if not , why?

 

Define seduction first! How you view it will give an insight into whether it's really the case or it's a meaningless worry.

 

Just playing devils advocate

If YOU are interested in a woman or man and they dont seem to be picking up on the hints, what or how do you alter your approach to succeed or do you just give up?

Because that fits my definition of seduction

 

“Sniffing her nose at you”? This must be something that women in other countries do bc I’m old and I’ve never seen a woman sniff her nose at someone. Maybe she’s suffering from allergies and sniffs a lot. I do.

She was sniffing, walking down the street and looking at you so this means she was begging for attention? So what if she was begging for attention, just mind your own business and go where you need to go. It’s really simple and any fool can do it.

I don’t need to google izebel behavior. In your mind izebel behavior is any woman who dares to walk down the street dressed like a woman. The nerve of these sluts who think they’re equal to men and can just walk the streets going places!

Izebel behavior is any woman who dares exist, go anywhere in public and God Forbid sniff through her nose, also known as breathing, anywhere close to a man. That izebel should’ve held her breath and stopped breathing until she was far away from you.

You have serious issues. Get help.

 

And yet everyday I manage to walk down the street without having a single person sniff their nose at me.

 

I sometimes this question of seduction in terms of power dynamics. The one superior power women have over men throughout the ages is their power of seduction. Stories of the ages are full of men who fell to seduction, to their ultimate ruin.

When I was actively dating, I eventually figured out that if I didn't automatically respond to a woman's seduction, then I had the initiative. This doesn't mean that I was cold, but if I stayed aloof, then I set the speed of the relationship, she'd be txting me more frequently asking to get together, posted more on my FB wall, etc. In other words, if I didn't automatically and fully give into her seduction, then she'd end up pursuing me, instead of the other way around.