Is this a relapse?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Nooneknows2003, Mar 26, 2017.

  1. Nooneknows2003

    Nooneknows2003 Fapstronaut

    Im 7 days into no porn, no cybersex and NoFap, and was feeling really horny and wanted sex with my gf.

    However in order to get aroused enough to have sex I had to touch myself as she touched herself before we then did it.

    Is this a relapse given that I couldn't get hard automatically but needed my own manual help? Or do I get a pass because it was only a means to get to have real sex? And didn't involve any porn or cybersex?

    As it has been a few weeks since we've had sex cos I've been dealing with terrible ED I think that this is a 'natural' first step between the virtual and the real or am I just fooling myself?
  2. scjguy

    scjguy Fapstronaut

    I wouldn't consider it a relapse to P, but to M.
    Wouldn't you do oral sex to her to get aroused? That works with me all the time.

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