Is this okay???

Is totally normal.

Everything that is real is ok. Instead of pictures of her, I just would be direct and decisive and set a date that can lead to sex. You can have sex without the O. Let it flow.. and enjoy the real experience.

 

If you get hard just by reading her texts, it means you have a pumping libido whic means you are healthy. Everything real is better than a bunch of pixels on a screen, so you have nothing to worry about.

 

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No problem!

 

Even though she's a real person, it's best to stick to natural rewards and stay away from artificial ones.

It's totally fine to get hard reading texts, especially if she's sending something a little sexy, but it's best to refrain from explicit sexting or sending/receiving nudes. In the context of all stimulation, doing stuff over the phone with someone you're in an actual relationship is not bad at all, but when recovering from porn abuse then it's something you should refrain from for a while.

If she's constantly sending you stuff, it might be a good idea to have a talk with her about sexy things over the phone. It's perfectly fine to tell her you had issues with spending too much time sexting, and you're okay with it every once in a while, but you don't want to make it a habit. You can also say you are trying to stay away from pictures on a screen because you've would look at Instagram/porn too much in the past. If she's butthurt about you not wanting her nudes, say it just makes you less appreciative of her body over time, and you don't want your intimacy and sex to suffer. Say you'd rather experience the real thing than just stare at it on your phone. She'll love that. Setting relationship boundaries and restrictions is not only healthy for your relationship, but it shows your partner that you think as an individual, you're willing to sacrifice things for the betterment of the relationship, and that you have initiative. Girls love that shit. That's how you show you're a strong, capable man.

 

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