I've lost the urge to masterbate to orgasm

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by DaveyMicrocosm, Dec 2, 2017.

  1. DaveyMicrocosm

    DaveyMicrocosm Fapstronaut

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    Ever since I replaced my underwear aligning with the commandment in the bible not to wear clothes made out of two materials, replacing them with just regular cotton ones. I don't have the urge to masturbate, not too long ago I was looking at porn pictures but nothing hardcore. I just enjoy seeing people naked I don't think there's anything entirely wrong with that. I view nudity as purity and the most honest expression. I am against the orgasm because it wastes life force (I view it as suicidal if it's not being used to reproduce), it's a noticeable difference before and after orgasm for me and the effect can last for a long time and is not a positive one. Sure I sometimes touch my genitals or penis but not vigorously pumping or stimulating the head. I'm trying to go without viewing any nudes only waiting for a girlfriend or a wife to see a nude body. We'll see how it affects me. Anyway I'm making this post because it could aid some in a common problem. If you are wearing stretchy underwear and use it to masturbate because you were circumcised then I recommend normal cotton boxers or briefs (I wear boxers). I don't know how many this could benefit but it has made a huge difference in my life, taking away urges and even the ability to masturbate in my most practiced form. So good luck everyone.
     
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  2. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

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    I wear boxers too. Very helpful for NoFap. I stopped wearing briefs long time ago.
     
  3. Nice job identifying a trigger though I must say the ultimate temptation is in your head not your pants. So stay on guard for other temptations because the urges will come back with or without the stimulating underwear. It's good that you are giving up looking at nude images too because us guys are wired to be stimulated visually. Even if you don't face temptation to fap while viewing them your brain can still make "connections" to them that could disrupt that type of connection with your wife/girlfriend. Not to mention that they will naturally hate it if you are looking at those images while in a relationship with them - any sexual experience that doesn't involve your SO will naturally cause jealousy and hurt. And yes you can become addicted to porn/nude images even if you don't fap (speaking from experience).
     
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    Davidphd1866 Fapstronaut

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    Davey, can you try to explain a little more about why different underwear help you? I certainly believe your positive experience, I just don't quite see the comparison of types. Can you try using other words to explain please?

    Thank you!
     
  5. DaveyMicrocosm

    DaveyMicrocosm Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the advice Jaws I'll take it into deep consideration as I think you made some very reasonable points that I hadn't really thought of pertaining mainly to a wife or girlfriend, really it is somewhat common sense but something I've somewhat lost in my intake of erotica. I would much rather have a relationship then a connection through a computer.

    Davidphd1866 I'm wearing nothing special Hanes boxers from target which are 100% cotton. I used to wear costco brands made of cotton and spandex and because the material was very soft and stretchy I would wear them regularly and I could use them to stimulate the glands of my penis head which would lead to orgasm.
     
    Last edited: Dec 3, 2017
  6. UKSD

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    This is good my friend! I'm feeling exactly the same.
     
  7. Davidphd1866

    Davidphd1866 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for clarification on the boxers.
     

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