Libido won't come back !!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Mark joe, Nov 26, 2016.

  1. Mark joe

    Mark joe Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys I've been doing NoFap for about 145 days now and I still haven't got my sex drive back, it came back around day 60 and it was amazing but then hasn't came back since what should I do ??
     
  2. feo1966

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    Flatline can come and go. It can take a while for your Brain to heal.

    Just stick with it
     
  3. feo1966

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    Question....when it came back after 60 days ....what did you do?

    P-subs? Enjoy some fantasies?
     
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  4. Mark joe

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    I didn't do anything it just gradually started to fade away
     
  5. Mark joe

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    I probably looked at some naked girls from time to time but I did that before day 60 also and it still came back
     
  6. mcrcvrng

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    That makes me wonder.. What about docs who are keen on the reboot process? I guess a lot of them will be like oh that doesn't matter, but there has to be some who understand. And either way it's good to get checked out.
     
  7. Mark joe

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    Thanks mate I should probably get it checked out, I might as well
     
  8. feo1966

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    Ah..... And there is your answer!

    You pulled yourself out of flatline by looking at arousing material. You took a hit of the drug… And you felt better.
     
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  9. tattleen7

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    yep exactly what i was gonna say he ruined the part where brain heals the most
     
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  10. dd500

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    I think flat lining means your body is working on restoring itself. I'd just stay with it.
     
  11. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    If you are wanting a relationship rather than a sex object to replace your porn addiction, flatlining might be the best time to start something serious. When your libido is through the roof, it is difficult to avoid grabbing the closest sex object and just using them to get off. As you get to know and like someone, I would expect your healthy libido to wake up naturally.
     
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  13. Frühlingstimme

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    he's not flatlining. He looked at naked girls (P-subs)
     
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  14. RedPillRebooter

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    And this is what I'm talking about when I say people are rebooting improperly...
     
  15. Dziki007

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    Dude if you are not sexual aroused for long time that doesnt mean you fuucked up your libido! You are in healing process, like me, i am on 24 days reeboot, no sexual thoughts, no desire to look on naked women AND I FEEL FUUCKING GREAT.
     
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  16. Mark joe

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    Thanks guys I didn't know that so I will not even think about boobs until I'm fully healed thanks lads for your advice
     
  17. Mark joe

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    Yeah I should of researched a bit more before I started I'm just hoping that if I stop even thinking about girls it will come back soon thanks guys I'll report back to let yous know how I get on
     
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  18. Venom1

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    Why do you and a lot of people care so much of having a low libido?? Having a low libido carries you further into the rebooting and fulfilling your goals, and plus what are you going to do with your sex drive if your not going to get any release (unless you have a wife)? but if you have a wife I can see why you want it back.
     
  19. Mark joe

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    Yeah I never did care about having low libido but I think now it's just kind of getting annoying now because of how long it's been and I'm only 21 and I've had to give excuses as to why I couldn't go to girls houses
     
  20. outedskeleton

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    I'm curious what makes you believe you have no libido. Is this because you were with someone, engaging in sexual activity and you weren't aroused? Or, is it simply because you don't feel the need to have sex with random people? Are you in a relationship?