Loss of sensitivity/ED/Over masturbation? In need of guidance

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by chris2019, May 18, 2019.

  1. chris2019

    chris2019 Fapstronaut

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    So this story goes back quite a bit. So im going to give all the main points. I lost my virginity back in 2008-2009 when I was in 8th grade. Everything was completely normal, would get hard for every and anything. When me and that girlfriend broke up, i was single but never was the type to have sex with just anyone . Got into a relationship again in 2011 for a year. And after that i began masturbating alot . Sometimes excessively , 2-3X a day. Sometimes one after the other and I didnt think nothing of it. Then I got into a situation where things got serious, and all of a sudden i couldnt perform. I wasnt Nearly as hard for sex and i NEVER knew what the issue was. And until this day its been the same issue. Got blood work done everything has come back normal. I obviously love women, when im making out I get hard, but its not the same anymore. When its time to take the next step I just cant seen to get hard enough for sex. Before it was no question- ready off the rip. I feel like The sense of touch doesnt arouse me as much, I feel that since I used to masturbate so much so often, that i lost sensitivity which has then caused my ED. I cut down on masturbation ALOT but stopped a week ago cold turkey. I feel if i stop masturbating completely and allow myself to heal , ill gain some sort of that sensitivity and ill rewire my brain. Has this happened to anyone? What did you do? Did you recover? I been reading some things and they mention some creams for sensitivity and blood flow . I just want my life back, i feel like im missing out on alot and its truly eating at me. i want to get back to how I was, any help would be great. Thanks so much for this group too, this is truly embarrassing for me. I cannot stress it enough how much i want my old self back


    God bless
     
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  2. larenn

    larenn New Fapstronaut

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    Mate!!

    Exactly I'm in the same situation now Im at 34 age. Trying hard for all the information on internet or doctors... yet to understand, whats going on with me...
     
  3. chris2019

    chris2019 Fapstronaut

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    Same brother im 24. I cant continue to do this, We need the help/guidance to get back on track. Shit affects our self esteem, confidence, slightly depressing like wdf.
     
  4. othellohunter

    othellohunter Fapstronaut

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    Same here.
    I m 2weeks now no PMO.

    I feel better to be honest. Day 10 was the worst in my life. It was like something was eating me.
    Now over the last few mornings I wake up hard and I do feel better.
    Very important do not watch porn ever again.
    Like never.
     
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  5. JesusStrength

    JesusStrength Fapstronaut

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    Weak signals from brain to your penis bro.. Caused by porn.. You are in a virtual world with porn. Welcome to the real world.
     
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  6. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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  7. chris2019

    chris2019 Fapstronaut

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    how

    How do I strengthen those signals bro? Just staying off the porn/masturbation?
     
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  8. chris2019

    chris2019 Fapstronaut

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    Its more so over masturbation porn and just visualizing shit or experiences in my head and wacking to it. 2 weeks today No PMO
     
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    chris2019 Fapstronaut

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    So in others words my self pleasing The mind the way the rats mind got effected in VR compared to the RW. I need to rewire that, i cut porn, and all that off. 2 weeks today, i been good - morning wood and wood throughout the day its just the beginning but I also feel like the loss of sensitivity plays a part. Do you think I should get that vitamin e oil? Its suppose to help the skin making it more sensitive and to repair the skin/tissue due to over masturbation
     
  11. JesusStrength

    JesusStrength Fapstronaut

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    Go hardmode 90 days.. Pray to Jesus because this is also an attack from the devil. Its spiritual.
     
  12. othellohunter

    othellohunter Fapstronaut

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    Just don't watch porn I m 3rd week now. No porn no mastrubation.
    I think I m lucky. Very lucky that I feel good so quick.
     

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