Hi. I am a 55 year old Male, I have been addicted to porn for 20 + years now. it started with the internet being able to go to free sites and be able to see what ever you wanted, Iwas married at that time and things were not working out. I thought the problem was my wife's , but now looking back I believe it was the porn that was interfering with the relationship, which did lead to divorce. Being single for awhile I believe lead to a bigger dependency on porn and not worrying about what other people thought cause it was in the privacy of my own home. Met a wonderful lady and she helped me with the addiction , we ended up getting married and for awhile it was good, but that demon came back almost cost me the marriage but she stuck by me and helped me again. Then I was diagnosed with Prostate cancer and had it removed, no more sex , no more erections I was told. tried for a few years nothing worked, Then this great woman whom stuck by me twice passed away. and the porn started again, erections started to come back and I have started to date again , But that porn has made it very tough to be wife a actual women, when I watch porn I can get a semi erection and orgasm, but when I am trying to be with a actual women there is nothing. I watched a show on CNN with Lisa Ling and heard about this site . So this is day 2 of the rest of my healthy sex life.
Hello and welcome! We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started. Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us! Here is just some advice: First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+) Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support. People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well! Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal. Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
