Mature women fetish

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Oct 4, 2019.

  1. Should I consider the fact that I am sexually attracted to mature or older woman a fetish or a problematic sexual behaviour? 80% of the porn I used to watch was about older woman and younger guys and I used to visit escorts frequently and same almost all of them were way older than me. I wouldn’t be against having a true relationship with an older women but I’m worried that it would be only for sex . And another thing that makes me think it’s a problematic sexual behaviour is that I’m not sexually attracted to women in my age range or at least not the same .
     
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  2. PlanetsCollide

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    What do you think when you see a beautiful mature woman let's say in her 50s? Do you just want to have sex with her? Or do you also think she's really beautiful, classy, confident and so on? I think every single one of us has preferences that are not strictly tied to porn, it's totally normal if you ask me. Preferences are not the same thing as fetish and they can't be porn induced in my opinion.
     
  3. The first thing that crosses my mind when i see a woman in her 50 s Is sex , that’s why I believe it’s a problematic sexual behaviour. She doesn’t even have to be attractive honestly, I don’t know if it’s porn induced but I can feel it’s not right .
     
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  4. marr708

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    I often look at mature women and think that they must have been super hot when they were young. Depending on their attitude, I often see the young girl who still dwells inside. They can't stop their bodies from aging, but having a zest for life makes mature women quite attractive. There is nothing wrong with you.
    [Full disclosure: my wife is 56 and still hot. However, her wonderful attitude just adds to her beauty. I am ashamed I ignored her for so long].
     
  5. Nadav_co

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    Welcome to the club.
    I've always liked Mature women but only sexual since i was a kid. And Romanticly I prefer having a relationship with a girl my age +\-
    Porn even made it worse. "Thanks" to porn, My brain is now designed to get it's dopamine mainly from mature women. It's difficult to get aroused by girls my age for me at this moment.
    What i'm trying to say, You probably have a fetish for older women, that's fine. But be careful, because porn is known for making fetishes worse..
     
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  6. I can relate to that. Especially if the woman has thicker proportions. Im 30 so i wouldnt want to be in a relationship with the 50yo woman but i look at them as perfect candidate for sex. As with you im not sure of its porn induced but im sure the majority of it is. I slowly transitioned over my porn career to looking at alot of mature bbw stuff.
     
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  7. SparkySub

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    I have this thing too. I like a woman older than me, so late 20's to early 60's is my preference. For me as a 16 year old, I am more in this for the attraction and romantic side of things opposed to sex. I am of age in the UK, however I will wait a year or so just to mature up further and get some more muscle lol.
     
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  8. marr708

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    You definitely are "painting with a broad brush" checking out 20 to 60 year old women. I salute you. You sound like a very cool chap with lots of great potential. There are so many wonderful women out there to enrich your life!
     
  9. SparkySub

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    Thanks bud. I dislike limiting myself to specific ages etc. Wish the best for ya mate.
     
  10. Asgardian36

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    so true, man! for older woman, their attitude is that adds to their sexy-ness. I think I am attracted to BBW and mature woman, and I am certain I had that preferance even before I got heavily into PMO...
    anyways P makes it worse.
     
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  11. SparkySub

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    Yeah I've always had a BBW preference too. Not a bad thing ;)
     
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  12. Asgardian36

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    no man, not at all. Infact I guess the older woman on Tinder are actively seeking young men these days!!!
     
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  13. SparkySub

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    I think some are. There's specific dating websites too. Always appreciate an older woman!
     
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  14. Asgardian36

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    which sites? i wasn't aware there were sites specific to older woman!
     
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  15. SparkySub

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    Toyboywarehouse is one, haven't used it as I'm underage, but I will do in a year or so. Its pretty good from what I've seen too. I'm sure there's some more out there as well.
     
  16. Get_It

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    I like some older women.
     
  17. Hold it in

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    I love older women. I wouldn't consider it a problematic sexual behavior though. Find a older gal to date, I'd quit the escorts however. A guy could spend his whole pay day on that. lol
     
  18. Homelander

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    There is nothing wrong with having a relationship with a milf or milf looking lady.
    Go for it dude, but set your expectations accordingly
     
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