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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ItsYaBoi, Mar 14, 2018.

  1. ItsYaBoi

    ItsYaBoi New Fapstronaut

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    I want to remain anonymous but if you do wish to what to call me "YaBoi" will do, I'm 16, I've been masturbating for pretty much everyday for a couple of years, more often then not multiple times a day. I wanted to get better because I've noticed that porn is the main thing I spend my time on. I recently got a girlfriend whom I love very much and I was at her house and she tried to give me oral but I went flaccid and it was difficult for me to get hard and stay hard. I did research and realized that I have been doing it so much that I can't really get hard without looking at porn and I want to get hard and stay hard for her. I know I'm a kid and all and we did promise that sex is not going to happen till marriage but I don't want her to think I don't like her because she said that. If anyone has anything to do or help please contact me asap she wants to meet in may again and I want to be able to do something at least. Again I know I'm still a kid but it's very worrisome not for her but for me and my confidence for my future self.
     
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  2. gitch

    gitch Fapstronaut

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    Welcome. What i can say about your relationship with your girlfriend is this: show her you care for her, take her to see places and things you like, let her know you want to get to know her, and do not get preoccupied with sex. As for porn in your life, I do know that the sooner you stop using porn for gratification, the better off your life will be, especially with someone you love. I started at 11 way back in the sixties and as i look back now, the time i spent hiding it from my lovers/girlfriends/wives, and keeping it secret and the shame i felt would have been much better spent making them dinner, taking them to a park, a museum, lifting weights, reading, earning money by working, anything but looking at porn and masturbating. Use the site and see what others have done and what porn does to you; you are young, i hope you will move away from it. One day at a time.
     
  3. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome YaBoi, I'm glad you're here. Keep coming back!
     
  4. Hey @ItsYaBoi,

    Welcome.

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