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Need some advice

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Overapple, Mar 5, 2020.

  1. Overapple

    Overapple Fapstronaut

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    I need to Be able to perform in bed with my GF. Clearly I’m having issues due to PIED. So it’s mostly just embarrassing. Despite her patients she clearly gets as frustrated as I do (she doesn’t even bring it up) so I need some advice regarding pills.

    anyone have any experience with them? Do I get carded? What’s then cost? What should I expect when taking them?

    I just need them until I can get through this, if I’m able to have regular sex with the GF I won’t be nearly as tempted to look at porn. Please help
     
  2. If you use pills and try to do nofap while having sex with your gf You will mess your brain up & make things worse!!!! You are already with the burden of nofap Plus your gf & on top of that you are just covering it up with pharmaceuticals. When you get off the pills your brain will be wired different & you will then have to rely on pills throughout & that’s just more stress and damage to your biology.

    best advice don’t use pills & No PMO.
    Tell her what’s going on or healing yourself will become more damaging. Use her to heal you but don’t tell her that lol or jus try to put off sex & don’t pmo. Eat healthier & workout
     
  3. untunedguitar

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    What bradmax said. Just reboot, abstain for some time until your PIED gets better. Talk with her about it and hopefully she will be supportive. There's also this Karezza technique which you can find about around here, basically it's enjoying intimacy with your partner without sex or only pleasing her. Good luck bro.
     
  4. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    The only way your dick is going to be full of blood is if you get exited about your partner. If you saw too much porn no matter the pill you consume, it won´t help you a lot because you are not going to get aroused anyway.
    Obviously pills will help a little.. but the real issue is that your brain is not turned on by your girlfriend. Quit porn and masturbation and eventually your girl will turn you on and make you be rock hard.
     
  5. TheJetDude44

    TheJetDude44 Fapstronaut

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    I have used boner pills before and they do work it makes it really easy to get an erection, some side boob will get you hard while on those things. Ask your doc for some hell probably get you a prescription for a generic version that is safe. But like mentioned before it will have negative effects on rewiring yourself. I barely use them because I really don't have much sensation because of PIED even with pills the sex isn't as enjoyable as it would normally be if I didn't have this problem. Most of the time I cant even come because the desensitization is so bad.The best thing is to try to have sex without them and abstain from porn use. If you really want to have sex with your girlfriend then use them but not too often you don't want to rely on them. If your GF doesn't like the situation she's not worth it dude a good woman will understand and help you through it.
     

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