Background about me: I am 34 years old man. I have been living in the US for few years. I have Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees and currently working on my PhD. I saved enough money from my previous job. I live alone in my place, and drives my dream car. I go to the gym multiple times a week. I have never been on a date. I have never had close friends. I decided to lose my virginity to an escort at age 28 after trying online dating and approaching 10 girls on campus without success. Since then, I have seen over 14 escorts. About once every few months or so. I am not mentioning my life style to brag, but to make the point that even if you had your life in order, including living in your own place, driving your own car, working out, excellent education, multiple degrees, and a potential 6 figures income job that doesn’t mean women are going to be attracted to you. I have no friends to tell me if there is something wrong with me (personality wise, or look wise). I don’t want to continue seeing escorts forever. But here is the thing: Sometimes you can only do so much. You might think you are physically attractive but in reality you’re below average in the eyes of the women you’re attracted to. I am specifically looking for a game plan so that if I followed it perfectly and didn’t succeed in getting a date by the end of it, I then know that my datelessness is most likely due to other factors I cannot control such as look, ethnicity, skin color, etc. Thanks!