Do you mean male friends? I don't have the desire to have “buddies“. Most men are so repulsive in many ways. It is all about competition and putting down others. Women are totally different though. I am lucky enough to have a job where I interact daily with them and they are fantastic. I love almost everything about them. They are the perfect buddies, but we are obsessed for sex, so we generally don't appreciate other qualities women have in abundance.