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Not bold enough to propose to any girl

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Stp890, Feb 29, 2020.

  1. Feb 29, 2020 #1
    Stp890

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    My fellow nofappers how do you do it,i am 26 but never propose to any girl,before i started pmoing i loved girls as expected though too young to date then,but pmo addiction i think depletes my love hormones like oxytocin and testosterone,for the past 8 years i no longer feel the sensation,emotion or perception of love,i dont feel the real love of any girl,my brain has nothing to do with girls other than pornify them,i am annoyed of this bad condition,i wonder how my friends are telling me how they feel while in love,but i am scared of saying out my condition to them too because i know is embarassing,all my friends are dating girls,some are getting married,but me neither of the two,
    But after i did enough research on my condition,i understood that the perfomance anxiety,fear of embarassment,divorce,and low self esteem resulted from my PIED,PE,shrunk manhood are what fuels,increase,and accelerate my condition,but i hope when the porn induced dysfunctions left me then i would enjoy my life,date,marry,and bear children.I promise to never give up to pmo,my dream was nothing but the so called super powers!!!!!!!!
    All suggestions,advices,corrections,and comments are highly needed,thanks for reading.
     
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  2. Mar 1, 2020 #2
    Karimtolstoi

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    Hey,
    Good luck man with your nofap journey. I just want to share with you my understanding of pmo and particularly the mo part. It means there is no problem to masturbate since you do it without orgasm. What I suggest is that you just masturbate when you feel yourself « full » but don’t do it when you feel desire or when you have bad feelings like stress.
     
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  3. Mar 1, 2020 #3
    Metis07

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    Long story short:
    Go 1 year no pmo (hard mode, no psubs, no fantasizing) plus self improvement little by little.

    After that I think you will understand how little were your problems mentioned in OP (it’s all in our head ofc)
    Good luck

    Édit: do it as an experiment on yourself - you loose nothing, after 1 year you will choose either to go back to pmo or to continue with Nofap (I am almost sure that you will choose second variant)
    The question is how hard do you want it (I mean to improve your life and get rid of problems mentioned)
     
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  4. Mar 1, 2020 #4
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    Well it seems that you already know the solution to your problem you now just have to stop doing it.But be careful because not all of your problems are caused by PMO doing NoFap is just a beginning.Also I would recommend working on your social skills.That is one aspect of your life that can greatly improve the other aspects of your life
     
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  5. Mar 1, 2020 #5
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    That isn't going to work especially for porn addicts.You are recommending to replace one addiction with another.At the end of the day dopamine is still released.Also how do you define "full"
     
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