Think I might leave nofap. Not finding the community I had hoped for. To b a lone wolf and want to be part of the pack...
I'm sorry you feel this way. This journey is easier with companions willing to help. There are a lot of us out here trying our best to be in this. Also, the more you reach out, the more you will get in return. Good luck!
@UpyetDown its great ur sharing ur thoughts . its great ur replying to posts. start with small steps.
Yeah I was from the beginning though. I've come in contact with one person. That was beneficial. I was thinking more though.
@UpyetDown Too bad, then I have one less man to follow here. Online support groups are hard. Many have lot of other stuff to do too. What you were hoping for? Comments? More private messages? Developing any relationships take time. Am struggling with that too.
When i first came to the forums here i was continually searching and hoping for someone to be in exactly the same scenario as me at the time. Would find people with similar stories but every one ended up different. Didn't feel like anyone would understand me. Used to get me down. However, I did pick up some good self improvement tips along the way; e.g. books to read, informative videos, etc. Stopped coming here for about a year until 11 days ago. This time feels different. I'm not looking for that other unique story/person any more. Hope that helps.
Can you characterise the difference? What were you hoping for and what have you found? I have found the opposite, the community here has been crucial to my current porn-free streak, but it's interesting to hear other people's experiences.
I have Facebook groups to help me with same sex attraction. Not everyone will make time there necessarily but I've found many who do. I'm trying to be transparent online, and though it worked with a couple people here, it usually doesn't with hetero ones when i open up. I expected to be treated the same. I guess a phobic thing happened when I don't even want it- sane sex attraction. They likely just think a flamer that wants to trade nude pics. Pretty sure most people I would not want to see that way. I was however attemptimg to be naked in my issues. I do have a contact I can go to. I'm not trying at the moment to nofap and no methods really work for me :/
I thought I responded. It doesn’t really matter to me anymore. I’m just here to mostly read and abstain from P&M.