Partner Trust

Get clean. Don’t relapse. Be rigorously honest, completely transparent. Get the book a worthy of her trust and the dvd Helping her heal. Understand that it isnt unusual for it to take between 18 months and 3 years on average to rebuild trust. It took me 3 years the first time. I will never completely trust him now. You cannot lie. Not ever again.

 

Don't lie. If you relapse, tell. When my husband has told me and comes forward (in the past) it would take me a couple of weeks to recover. When he lies its over 18 months. I'm still not over it about 4 years later and never fully will be. But I'm much better and I love him and respect him for his honesty.

 

Do you think the helping her heal dvd was worth the money? I keep going back and forth on it. He's fully aware of what he did and says he doesn't ever want to do it again, but I can't tell if that dvd will have enough more in it or not. He already read worthy of her trust. Trying to get him to read love you hate the porn. Problem now is that I'm devastated beyond repair.