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peeing during blowjob

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by modernstore99, Feb 18, 2019.

  1. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Ok guys fuck. Something weird happened tonight. My girlfriend was giving me a BJ, and all was normal. I just completed a 90 day reboot; before I could not even get an erection with a naked girl in front of me from PIED, and now I have sex with 100% erections and finish in a timely manner everytime. Anywho, during the BJ, she did this thing where she rubbed my head with her hand. It felt hella nice, so I had her keep doing it. I felt like I was gonna cum, but then like 2 seconds before, I was like oh no and told her to get away. Thank fucking god we were in a bathroom because I fucking pissed. Like wtf. That is really not supposed to happen. I was super hard, really aroused, and it felt really good, almost as good as sex. I haven't checked our condoms after sex for pee in them (I've not noticed this before so idk), but I haven't felt like I've peed during sex. I'm not like freaking out a lot, we still have sex and that's nice. But this is really not normal. Does anyone know what's up
     
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  2. Cad123

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    Used to happen to me. So weird.

    You need more time away from pmo.
     
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  3. modernstore99

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    I've done the full reboot, and I've been having chill sex since then with no fucking pee. Could it be anything else? When did it go away for you?
     
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  4. FopimusMinimis

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    I just did 23 days of Nofap, and I have been noticing than my piss has been reaching my urethra. It feels like I am about to piss but I manage to keep it in. What is happening?
     
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  5. ultrafabber

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    It's still not normal, imo you should see a doctor about it. Did you use to have retrograde ejaculation and/or contract your bc/pc muscles not to ejaculate?
     
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  6. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Definitely no retrograde, and I'm 98% sure the bc/pc muscles are fine, but I don't remember if I used them to ejaculate so idk.
     
  7. ultrafabber

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    Dunno man, as far as i know biology stuff, it should be impossible to pee with an erection.
     
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  8. Agonist

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    Are you sure it was urine? As ultrafabber noted, it should be impossible or insanely difficult to urinate with a full erection. Something might be physically wrong with your plumbing if it happened spontaneously like that. I seriously doubt it has anything to do with PMO.
     
  9. aliceal

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    Urinary incontinence -
    look for a doctor
     
  10. Timeforachange!!!

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    I actually had this issue which made me come to NoFap in the first place. When you peed, did it kinda just squirt out or was it like a hard piss cause for me what would happen is I would feel like I may cum and tried sometimes to force it out but it would just be this other liquid which really scared me since I’ve never really heard of that issue before. I was completely able to cum with PMO which lead me to believe that PMO was the culprit along with likely some combination of performance anxiety and trying to force something to come out. However, even sometimes when I didn’t force it out it would still come as like a squirt which was really weird.
     
  11. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    It was like a solid 2 second stream of pee. It was definitely watery pee, not thicker like semen or even precum. I got some on the toilet in the bathroom and it spread out like urine does and had a slightly yellow tint.
     
  12. Timeforachange!!!

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    Hmm ok and this has never happened before right? I think that it is likely a similar issue to the one I had but I can’t say for certain. I will likely go to check with a doctor as well after the reboot if this occurs again but try not to worry too much if this has only happened one time. Did u need to pee before getting the BJ?
     
  13. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Never has happened before. I went pee like 3oish minutes before so idk.
     
  14. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    I think I might have a UTI :( . I'm feeling pretty sick already, and I got a burning sensation while peeing a couple times today. I've also been peeing irregularly from what I normally do.
     
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  15. Really? I can't tell you how many times I've gotten up in the middle of the night with a raging erection and needing to pee - I would have to lean forward awkwardly in order to aim it into the toilet and as a teenage sometimes it would be so hard that I would just step into the shower to pee! :D

    On the flip side, sometimes it seems like I have a really hard time ejaculating if I need to pee. :confused:

    I thought all that was normal . . .
     
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  16. modernstore99

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    Well yeah peeing with a boner happens a lot. That's normal. But peeing during sex is very different and not supposed to happen. At the spot where the seminal vesicles meet the urethra, there's supposed to be like a little gate. It's normally closed on the seminal vesicle side so pee can flow freely from the bladder and no valuable semen is randomly lost. When your body begins to contract for orgasms, the gate is supposed to switch sides so stuff from the seminal vesicles can flow, and nothing comes out of the bladder; pee would likely mess with the sperm and likely your partners vagina. During a reboot, it's common for guys to "leak" seminal fluid, although the mechanism behind this is not completely understood. In normal guys and addicts, retrograde ejaculation is when the gate malfunctions and sends semen into the bladder. Men releasing urine during sex though, is very rare and not supposed to happen. The gate is supposed to block the bladder, but it seems mine is not.
     
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  17. Theamos

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    You have a muscle that contract during sex and closes off the bladder so urine can not exscape. It allows you to come and the seman to exit the body
    Some times the muscle can get damaged
    Also if the bladder is full it might not allow this muscle to contract thus causing a urine flow
    Was there alcohol involved!
     
  18. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Nope, and I peed like 30 minutes before. I’m probably gonna go to a doctor for this one
     
  19. ultrafabber

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    That's different, you're not actually aroused in the middle of the night, the erection you're getting has other purposes. And even then, you have to wait a little for the erection to be like 80% or so.

    In this case OP was aroused and it shouldn't have happened.

    You really should, don't postpone it further.
     
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