PIED Cured at day 58 after 3 year struggle

[H3nryFa]

I had successful sex today at day 58. I'm 20 years old and i was suffering from PIED since i was 18.
I had many 90 day reboots where i felt i was cured but when i attempt sex with my gf it just doesn't work or goes midway through sex.
There is something that was not discussed here before on NOfap that i'd like to discuss with ya'll : The Problem is not always you.
My girlfriend was average looking, nothing too crazy here. But she was really bad at turning me on, and her body fluids just weren't attractive to me. I had severe PIED with her a week ago!
Fast forward a week later and i had sex with a 10/10 woman with just beautiful body and her smell and sounds and just everything is how i like it. I had sex TWICE with her in the same fucking day.
Attraction is very important, you shouldn't be able to fuck something unattractive to you! nofap indeed lowers your standards because you've abstained from watching beautiful women on multiple tabs having it, but that doesn't mean you're gonna be able to fuck any chick no matter how ugly she looks, smells or Acts with you.

Anyway i'll be sharing some Tips with ya'll:

1. Porn is not the answer. No matter what happens never go back to porn. i would have been cured years ago if it wasn't for my couple 90 day streaks where i get depressed over not having successful sex and go back to porn
2. Flatlines are hard but they pass. i had a couple of flatlines, all lasting from a week to a month (previous 90 day attempts)
3. I've been watching Fantasy porn since i was 9! Watched cartoon porn, Vore compilations, Deepthroat and facial compilations etc... My brain was Fucked up, i became so desensitized to the vagina that it didn't even turn me on anymore. Nofap and rewiring with women fixed that
4. It is very important to be with a girl you're comfortable with, and TURNS YOU ON. I can't stress this enough, if the girl doesn't turn you on, You WONT be able to have sex with her no matter what.
5. Blue Pill (the site won't let me say V i a g r a ) won't do shit. i tried it last year with my gf and it gave me a weak ass erection with a mind of its own, also numbs your penis so you won't feel shit. you'll be having headaches for days after that. just not worth it if you ask me
6. If you feel like condoms remove your erections, it's ok. i had this problem too. But when you are with a beautiful woman that can TURN YOU ON, and you've had a lot of days of no PMO, this will never be a problem.
7. I found that making my girl lie on her belly (straight not doggystyle) is the best position for me to have super hard erection. Because the way i used to masturbate was lie on my tummy and rub myself (didn't use hands). Plus this position makes her go crazy so win win!!

If ya'll wanna ask me any question do reply to this thread, i'll be answering. I'm not gonna stop this journey, i've still got a long way to go.
I'm allowing myself Sex and O but No porn or masturbation.
Good luck to ya'll !!!!

 

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Congrats on your success and on improving your sex life. I'm really doing this no PMO journey so that I can enjoy a better sex life.

Agree with some of the things you say about erections. Yes, you absolutely need a girl that turns you on. In the past when I was no porn with a girlfriend I loved sex with her because she had the perfect body type for me and was just gorgeous. Plus really cool so she was a perfect match and I felt so comfortable around her.

Also note sexual anxiety can play a role with erections. Naturally when you meet someone new there can be performance anxiety and also just anxiety from getting naked and fucking... this is a factor for erections. For me it takes a few times having sex to feel really comfortable with someone. So inexperienced guys may have problems with erections just because of some sexual anxiety.

Agree totally that porn can fuck the brain up and focus your sexuality toward weird shit or just watching other people having sex... instead of a juicy vagina. There is nothing more healthy than wanting to tear into a juicy sexy vagina... that is what I want so I have to stay away from porn.

Disagree about the boner pills... in my experience boner pills have been of great help to me. Mainly the first few times I have sex with a girl I take boner pills and they work great for me. I don't have to worry about performance or sexual anxiety because I have a rock hard cock. After I feel comfortable with the girl I can stop using boner pills and just fuck her. Boner pills also let me fuck girls I'm not that attracted to, but are cute nonetheless. Admittedly sometimes I sleep with girls for fun and for experience that may not be that hot. But they're real girls, are cool, and are still attractive... just not 100% my type. Sex can still be satisfying with these girls... and it's good for me to have a fuckbuddy. So boner pills help me perform with these girls. I like taking lower dosage of boner pills just for a little extra help to get me going... it's great for my confidence.

The first time I took a boner pill I actually sawed the girl in half with my penis. After sex I had to carry the two halves of her to the emergency room (like carrying two suitcases) so they could sew her back together haha. I like boner pills... I kind of wonder if you had legit pills or if you had fake ones... most people report rock hard erections when using them

Agree with condoms... when a chick turns me on no problem. Plus condoms just take getting used to. The sensation of condom sex, feeling comfortable etc. Now I actually enjoy condom sex more... because I don't have to worry about the chick taking birth control. Guys have to get used to using condoms if they want a good sex life with multiple girls

Thanks for sharing your success! Made me think of my own experience

 

[H3nryFa]

Congrats on your success and on improving your sex life. I'm really doing this no PMO journey so that I can enjoy a better sex life.

Agree with some of the things you say about erections. Yes, you absolutely need a girl that turns you on. In the past when I was no porn with a girlfriend I loved sex with her because she had the perfect body type for me and was just gorgeous. Plus really cool so she was a perfect match and I felt so comfortable around her.

Also note sexual anxiety can play a role with erections. Naturally when you meet someone new there can be performance anxiety and also just anxiety from getting naked and fucking... this is a factor for erections. For me it takes a few times having sex to feel really comfortable with someone. So inexperienced guys may have problems with erections just because of some sexual anxiety.

Agree totally that porn can fuck the brain up and focus your sexuality toward weird shit or just watching other people having sex... instead of a juicy vagina. There is nothing more healthy than wanting to tear into a juicy sexy vagina... that is what I want so I have to stay away from porn.

Disagree about the boner pills... in my experience boner pills have been of great help to me. Mainly the first few times I have sex with a girl I take boner pills and they work great for me. I don't have to worry about performance or sexual anxiety because I have a rock hard cock. After I feel comfortable with the girl I can stop using boner pills and just fuck her. Boner pills also let me fuck girls I'm not that attracted to, but are cute nonetheless. Admittedly sometimes I sleep with girls for fun and for experience that may not be that hot. But they're real girls, are cool, and are still attractive... just not 100% my type. Sex can still be satisfying with these girls... and it's good for me to have a fuckbuddy. So boner pills help me perform with these girls. I like taking lower dosage of boner pills just for a little extra help to get me going... it's great for my confidence.

The first time I took a boner pill I actually sawed the girl in half with my penis. After sex I had to carry the two halves of her to the emergency room (like carrying two suitcases) so they could sew her back together haha. I like boner pills... I kind of wonder if you had legit pills or if you had fake ones... most people report rock hard erections when using them

Agree with condoms... when a chick turns me on no problem. Plus condoms just take getting used to. The sensation of condom sex, feeling comfortable etc. Now I actually enjoy condom sex more... because I don't have to worry about the chick taking birth control. Guys have to get used to using condoms if they want a good sex life with multiple girls

Thanks for sharing your success! Made me think of my own experience

Congrats on your success and on improving your sex life. I'm really doing this no PMO journey so that I can enjoy a better sex life.

Agree with some of the things you say about erections. Yes, you absolutely need a girl that turns you on. In the past when I was no porn with a girlfriend I loved sex with her because she had the perfect body type for me and was just gorgeous. Plus really cool so she was a perfect match and I felt so comfortable around her.

Also note sexual anxiety can play a role with erections. Naturally when you meet someone new there can be performance anxiety and also just anxiety from getting naked and fucking... this is a factor for erections. For me it takes a few times having sex to feel really comfortable with someone. So inexperienced guys may have problems with erections just because of some sexual anxiety.

Agree totally that porn can fuck the brain up and focus your sexuality toward weird shit or just watching other people having sex... instead of a juicy vagina. There is nothing more healthy than wanting to tear into a juicy sexy vagina... that is what I want so I have to stay away from porn.

Disagree about the boner pills... in my experience boner pills have been of great help to me. Mainly the first few times I have sex with a girl I take boner pills and they work great for me. I don't have to worry about performance or sexual anxiety because I have a rock hard cock. After I feel comfortable with the girl I can stop using boner pills and just fuck her. Boner pills also let me fuck girls I'm not that attracted to, but are cute nonetheless. Admittedly sometimes I sleep with girls for fun and for experience that may not be that hot. But they're real girls, are cool, and are still attractive... just not 100% my type. Sex can still be satisfying with these girls... and it's good for me to have a fuckbuddy. So boner pills help me perform with these girls. I like taking lower dosage of boner pills just for a little extra help to get me going... it's great for my confidence.

The first time I took a boner pill I actually sawed the girl in half with my penis. After sex I had to carry the two halves of her to the emergency room (like carrying two suitcases) so they could sew her back together haha. I like boner pills... I kind of wonder if you had legit pills or if you had fake ones... most people report rock hard erections when using them

Agree with condoms... when a chick turns me on no problem. Plus condoms just take getting used to. The sensation of condom sex, feeling comfortable etc. Now I actually enjoy condom sex more... because I don't have to worry about the chick taking birth control. Guys have to get used to using condoms if they want a good sex life with multiple girls

Thanks for sharing your success! Made me think of my own experience

great insight from you my friend, happy that you have been successful as well

 

[H3nryFa]

Congratulations on your achievement, man!!!!!! It's a fantastic achievement and you can totally be proud of yourself!

Never going back to porn no matter what is indeed something we need to keep in our minds. That is a absolute imperative! Porn is not the answer, never. Really important statements you've made.

I'd like to ask you some questions btw:

(1) Did you talk to your gf about what caused your PIED?

(2) Can you tell us a bit more about your process of rewiring? Certainly to unwire your brain from pornography "all" you have to do is abstain, but when it comes to rewiring it to real women, how did you approach this?

Thanks for sharing your story with us!
Really inspiring!

1) i indeed told my ex girlfriend everything about PIED, the cause and the cure. She was super supportive.
2) i’ll tell you all about it. At first i tried to imagine real life sexual encounters with the most realistic approach i could, after a while i was able to get erections from thinking about sex. I then started to convince myself that The penis should get hard just by the thought of sex! Think about it this way: your parents aren’t home; your computer is on the desk and you have high speed internet. The first thought that pops into ur mind is watching porn. And you’d be trembling and shaking in excitement before even starting the video! That’s how you should feel about sex.
Anyway after a while i started rewiring with my gf, i started kissing her and trying to BE IN THE MOMENT as much as i can to Convince my brain that what i’m doing is the real deal. After a while i got erections but my gf just wasn’t enough. She just... didn’t turn me on! She’s not ugly but she’s not the way i like my women. I like them slim and super feminine with pink lips nips and vaginas haha and she was of darker color and with thicker body etc..
so after i got severe pied with her I hooked up with a chick (lana rhoades lookalike) that looks just the way i like it. Slim pink and hot lol. And you bet that i had super hard erections. But i was desensitized a lot! Blowjobs don’t feel pleasurable. What feels pleasurable is the tight vagina when she lays on her tummy
Because it imitates my masturbation style

Anyway i hope i at least answered some of ur questions man, never give up! Today i had 2 orgasms with her, took me 15 min after the first one to have the other, and i gotta say, i’m 100% cured. Every day that passes i feel like my dick is getting more .. sensitized shall i say