Players take on NOFAP - 70 days Porn free

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Buzz the rocketman (rocket...), Feb 8, 2021.

  1. Hi, I would never thought this year ago, but here I am, porn free for some time. My approach and story is a bit different in terms of sexual encounters (which i had tons of, during last year). Reason why Iam writing this post is that I took a bit of a different approach to cure my PIED and my porn addiction, which was severe, but it worked for me, maybe there is someone that finds this story helpful.

    Before i start, let me tell you a bit about myself. Iam 28 y old part time IT manager / part time martial arts instructor (iam constantly learning boxing, kickboxing, krav maga, basically any form of combat since age of 14). I was in a long term relationship for 8 years and another for 2 years. Now iam enjoying single life and perks it has to offer (lots of girls basically - i am a bit of a player). I quit porn because of PIED. Physically iam fit, muscular type, big tatooed man. Genetically and in terms of lifestyle everything implies i should not have any problem with my dick whatsoever, but truth is i have. Its the brain that is fucked up from all those years of porn abuse. It is like a time bomb.

    I started watching tons of porn at age of 14 and gradually went for heavier stuff. Thing is until 2 years back i never had a problem with erection. Reason for this was that i was in a relationship and everything worked as intended, but i started to develop this crazy behaviour of prefering porn to normal sex (it was mind blowing sex, but i still preffered to watch porn, stupid, stupid behaviour). 2 years ago i sold my company and ended up home, bored. So i turned to porn... And it was bad. I fapped through whole days, edged to extreme porn for hours to have these huge orgasms. I waited for 20 minutes and started again. I still fucked with my girlfriend, but we broke up soon after. I started affairs with every girl i could. But my dick suddenly stopped working. I just couldnt get it up. But i still watched porn and tried to fuck these girls (i have constantly about 4-5 girls that i see). Most of the time my dick was soft and i was in this really dark place. I could have any girl i wanted, but ... i could not enjoy it. If my dick was hard i couldnt cum at all and it took enormous effort to finish. I went to doctor, he told me that physically i am fine and prescribed sidenafil(same as your classic blue pill). It helped but only for short while, it certainly didnt solve anything, problem is your brain not your dick.

    So i stopped watching porn. But i still relapsed after few days, every time. But even tho i relapsed i still drastically cut the amount of porn that i watched. It actually helped so i started to cut porn more and more... and then flatline happened. It was bizzare. I couldnt feel a thing down there. For months. But ... i still continued having sex. With tons of girls. I worked 40% of my encounters. This went on for some time and last year starting december i quit porn for good. No more porn. Flatline got even worse. After month and something i noticed that i am hard as rock, with girl on a date. I did not experience this for over a year! Suddenly everything changed. Now i am hard like 9 times out of 10. This is pretty amazing to me and i will never watch porn again. I am not 100 yet, but i feel iam getting close. Now during last two months happened like 90% of my progress. I think that it is due to combination of several behaviour changes i implemented.

    1) Cold showers - i dont know why but it really works (start with normal shower and when finished go for cold one)
    2) Vitamins and enhancers - I take zinc, vit c, magnesium, maca root extract, vit d.
    3) Shrimps... i dont know why but they dramatically boost my libido
    4) I dont worry about girls rejections during sex, i usually tell them that i have a problem and they are very considerate of it. After i started doing this it really helped with pied, because you stop to worry about it.
    5) Hot tubs - i start morning in hot tub usually, in peace, meditating
    6) Sports - i started heavy workouts again (iam martial arts instructor as part time job)
    7) Journal - just writing everything down at end of each day
    8) Drastic reduction of home office
    9) Drastic reduction of masturbation (but i still have all forms of sex with different girls all the time)

    I can feel my body coming back to normal state again. It is important to realize that problem really is your head, not your dick.

    I hope someone who is in similiar circumstances reads this. I wrote this post because what really helped me was this one post here from guy with almost identical story. I just copied his advice and it worked.

    You can do this!
     
  2. wannabeViking

    wannabeViking Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your testimony. As an amateur boxer I must say nofap helps you to be a warrior way better. I'm still in a fight mode when doing this and confident of my skills when without this I felt insecure. Keep punching this porn shit man ;)!
     
  3. Lucid111

    Lucid111 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for sharing and congrats in kicking the porn out, but how do you get all those chicks? :D
     
  4. Most of them via Tinder, some of them i just met in real life, some of them were my friends that i could not fuck because i was in relationship. I am very interested in pick up comunnity and have one local mentor that showed me ho to fuck on first pr second date and his advices work like charm. But that is different topic.
     
  5. Thank you for your encouragement, it means a lot.
     

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