This post may not be coherent as I am currently experiencing extreme withdrawals from NoFap. This may come as shock to others, but this is my third day of not masturbating to porn (whenever i masturbate, i view porn, i dont simply masturbate to masturbate). I have been masturbating to porn for the last 3 years of my life i am currently 19 and i have done it usually between 7-14 times per week. I noticed porn was beginning to be a problem because I can not get hard to women i hook up with anymore, porn has destroyed me idk how else to put it, my sex drive has always been there but i cant maintain a boner even while getting a blowjob to an attractive woman...i researched extensively and knew I had porn induced ED...please someone tell me HOW LONG WILL I EXPERIENCE THESE WITHDRAWALS ( i cant sleep at night, i have anxiety, the only thing on my mind is porn , btw i only watched extreme porn like anal videos not gay tho ) and HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE TO GET MY PENIS BACK AND IN FULL FUNCTION ..please someone help me? i want to watch porn so badly right now and i am sufferring
i also am experiencing extreme and severe headaches from not watching porn or masturbating, how long does it take to get through this i am sorry for being desperate but i am almost suicidal
Hey man I feel you. I just started today and I can tell you that I am incredibly desperate. I have been jerking out to porn for 9 years now and I'm 19 too. I'm suffering from extreme social anxiety and depression and I would give anything to go fap right now. The only thing I can tell you is that I stopped porn and masturbation for about 3 months and that was probably the happiest time in my life before I relapsed again. My advice is this; think about the long term benefits rather than something that will leave you empty after 5 minutes because trust me the benefits DO EXIST and they are well worth the struggle.
thanks for the response..please tell me this when you went on your 3 month free of porn...how long for the headaches and temptation to go away or be reduced????
Hey buddy, Relax! I'm on day 18 today. I had bad cravings and withdrawls for about a week. But after that week, I felt a HUGE surge of testosterone that made me FEEL FUCKING AWESOME. Please, dont give up yet. You will get past the hard shit, and then it gets easier every day. Trust me brother. I am here for you if you ever need it. Stay strong
Also, It will help you to read through the literature on yourbrainonporn.com. Read the success stories, read about how your brain needs to rewire itself and how that process will make you experience bad withdrawl symptoms. The more you know about what is happening to your body the less shitty it seems.
Hey guy, Embrace the pain. It means your body, mind and spirit are changing! The real you is emerging. This will pass! You know, you will never know who you really are unless you stop. Of course it will heal your ED too! That's just the start! Your brain will totally rewire itself. Try to take some really deep breaths when you don't feel good. Relax and intentionally let go of the old ways. Your body mind and spirit are hooked on an unhealthy form of coping. Let your body adjust. Your body and mind are going through a lot. Be especially good to yourself at times like this. Go to the gym or go for a jog; call somebody to say hi. You don't have to tell them what's going on. You are a new man! You are the man that the kind of women you truly want to be with will cherish. Go be that man! Find new things to do. Write down on paper who the new you is. Catch the vision! You can do or be anybody! Come be with us real men. The discomfort will pass though and it will be replace with real peace, joy and happiness. Your body will readjust soon. Try to focus on new hobbies or interests. And, get out of your bedroom! Go be with people doing fun things! Do it man! It's so worth it. Other guys can do it. You are not weird in some way that makes you different than the rest of us, your brothers in battle. You're no different. You can do it too. Be a battle strategist, planning ways to overcome. Come on? If I can do it, you can too. I got out to 6 weeks before but notice my PMO counter down the bottom. I'm going for an unheard of 6 months. It's a new way of living. Don't make little plans my friend. It's time for me to change. How about you? Come on? Just do it! Plugger P.S. - I got to 6 weeks of no PMO like 7 years ago. I'm at 8 days now and that's unheard of for me. You don't want to be stuck for 7 years like I was. It' no fun. I'm not going back this time. Come on! Catch the wave!
I will be glad to help you become accountable and don't think of it as quitting for the rest og your life, think of it as quitting for the next hour one at a time get it?
