Hi guys, Just needed to get this off my chest. The other night my ex girlfriend who I am still madly in love with invited me over to her house. I was so happy as I thought this could only be a good sign. Anyway as things started heating up and we took it in the bedroom I am saddened to say that i was barely able to get an erection. I am so crushed that i couldnt even get hard for the woman i love so much, the woman of my dreams who is so incredibly good looking. I feel like i have blown my chance of getting back with her because we werent able to have sex. I dont know if this is true but it definitely didnt help my cause, especially considering this was a problem during our relationship. Not sure why i am sharing this but i felt like i needed to get it off my chest as it has genuinely made me depressed. I love this girl more than anything and i couldnt even get an erection even though she is so beautiful. Thanks guys.
I got throught it a few times in my life too. The best what you can do right now is to use it pain as a bounce and motivation kick to get rid of PMO addiction. I did the same and today is my 125 day pmo free.
Have had similiar experiences - and here comes where being good in oral and enjoying it to help a lot in those situations. Feels very liberating to be able to make her cum with just your tongue - and it's calming too, as I've had performance anxiety a few times, especially with 'new' partners. They've easily overlooked it since they'll be going to bed satisfied anyway
Sorry for that man, it's hard to experience something like this with the woman you love . Congratulations, tho, on being able to share this, not everyone has the courage to openly talk about it . For how long have you been struggling with ED?