I recall when I was young, around the age of 18 to 20,, and I needed money bad.. I would work in any stupid or low-paying job just the work. I can only imagine being a somewhat cute girl at that age range. And someone offered me $2000 for five hours worth the work? They also promised me that once I do this I can work for a while and make up to $10,000 a week. That is a lot of money for somebody who is young, has no education, and wants to live an amazing lifestyle. If I was a girl and someone offered me that I would've probably done it back in the day. That's the truth about porn it preys on the unsuspected. The girls get paid a lot of money at the same time it fucks them up in the long run. anyways that's my two bit of contribution to this post
^ Accept the choice, accept the consequences. Sounds harsh....it is. If you really want to stop this behavior you can. There is counseling, support groups (be careful with this one), and if you are a religious person, help from your pastor. I used masturbation as a way to avoid cheating on my wife, it was easier than going through all the BS. Being a career military person was a challenge as well. Over the years, I've quit alcohol and smoking as well. It was a joke, I'd go out and run 5 miles and reward myself with a beer and a cigarette. I started fapping to Playboy, Penthouse, and I've seen porn films in Europe that would make you sick. Spoiler: triggers Jenna, Tori, and then later on Raven, Riley and so on. I actually have read some of these "adult forums" where mostly guys talk about all kinds of porn stuff and act like these "porn stars" are really like the people they portray in film. It's like a freaking science to them, and all their talk about "cowboy, reverse cowboy, DP, IR, and on and on! It's just sad!!!I have followed a couple of these girls on Twitter one for over 3 years. Since she started, she may have been a sweet mid-west small town girl at one time, but now she's just another cold hearted porn hustler, with a real effective narrative hustle, and a Vegas hooker. I have found her life so interesting, that as a writer, I'm actually working on an outline for a novella based on her life. Way back she would actually thank people who bought her stuff, but now "bupp-kiss" yet guys are tearing their pockets off to "win her favor." OK what's my point? I assure you, that there will come a time when one day, you'll start "jerking off" to one of these bimbo's, and about halfway through a light will come on in your brain, and you think, "What in the hell am I doing." That'll be the last time.....trust me. Good Luck.
^ First of all it's not amazing. Second, it's about $1500-2000 per scene (guys make less), and if they shoot 2-3 scenes at a time it's a lot. They are considered "contract workers" therefore no taxes, SS, or anything is taken out. 10-15% to the agent, lodging fees, meals, all sanitary and personal products, airfare usually from AZ to CA or FL. Also, they pay for their own medical/dental, eyecare, and testing. Some girls feature dance, do phone sex, camming, Snapchat, and escorting (prostitution), then there's the conventions representing the agency or production company. Also, many look for a sugar daddy to support them. I suggest you read Jenna Jameson's book and then decide how "glamorous" it is. Many wind up with substance abuse issues including alcohol, STDs and worse, mental breakdowns, suicide, and what really good guy wants a former porn star as a wife and mother? Some become really good manipulators, but in the end it always catches up.
You are right on the money, with my porn addiction I wanted to as much as I could about my favorite porn sites. I was a big time member of Girlsdoporn and found out they find their models through Instagram. They literally scour the country for girls on Instagram, message them they will pay them $2,000 and all expenses paid to go to San Diego and film a scene. It's off topic, but yes, it's back to the point in that we are in a much different time as far sexuality before the internet and all it's possible applications came to be. Society has not come up or addresses how sexuality in young people, or even older fr that matter, should be approached. I mean there just so much out there now. It goes back to what I said earlier, I can't imagine the work parents go through trying to steer their kids in the right direction as far as the approach to sexuality.
^ I don't think it's really "off topic" at all. I think when I first started "jerking off" to porn it was using magazines as a stimulus, there were no CDs, Internet, and so on. I went to movie theaters where porn was shown but it was a turn off to see a guy two rows in front of me wacking off watching a movie. Also, there were a couple of times where local hookers would come in and hustle guys for BJs, and jerk-offs, but the cops got involved and it stopped. I actually met a porn star one time who came to promote a film and was selling Polaroids for $10, and I found out after, you could arrange a special session in the manager's office for $200, a lot of money back then. The point is, these girls were not real to me, and I knew I'd never meet them and didn't know squat about them, their lives, etc. Today, many give out a lot of info and make you think you're special, along with the other thousands of guys. Just keep buying them stuff. If you really start to look into the adult biz, and see what it's really like and what happens to 90% of these girls, somehow it seems pretty pathetic and sad and maybe "fapping off" to them is kind of sad as well. If you start to see yourself as just another "mark" you could get angry enough to turn your desires towards a more productive direction, like maybe a real live girl in your own town. Trust me, they're out there!!!
I think the porn stars would regret their actions later. Not sure why anyone would want to get humiliated and called dirty words. The industry appears glamoros n fun from outside but in reality i think it's very nasty. I'm a part of media industry n my one colleague said he'll never let his kids or nephews/nieces enter the industry. he says he knows the inside of the industry(film industry) and how horrible it is. he said the kids lose their innocence once they join.
I get what drives many young women and men as well into the biz. What's important to me here is what we can do to stop being lured in the same way many of them were. Accept the choice, accept the consequences. Sounds harsh and it is. When you take your hard earned money and give it to some porn star to watch her ride a dildo on her boyfriends coffee table, and maybe get a "like" from her on Twitter while you fap off, maybe think about what you could have done with that money instead. It's not so much the jerking off, as much as you getting jerked off by some babe taking your money and then mocking you.
Dont be naive. Technically it is all a misquote as it was written in ancient greek. Yes its whole world. But the point here is not semantics... Same meaning. Thats what jesus was saying. If i were jesus now i would ask you. Why do you tell me to pay one dollar yet say twenty nickles or 10 dimes is not a dollar....
i dont agree with accept the choices, accept the consequences. quite often we get fooled into doing stuff we later regret. people do influence us. our surroundings influence us, just as we influence those that are around us.
Many texts are written in different languages, some in ancient languages. Some are much older than the new testament like Homer's Odyssey. The new testament is believed to have been written in Koine Greek. Sure some things get lost over time and in translation, but we don't do ourselves any favors by deliberately misquoting the translated texts. It's not the same meaning money and the whole world is not the same thing. This is not semantics as we are not arguing about the definition of the same word. The whole world is vast and could include absolute power, popularity, fame, etc
@Themadfapper why are u writing a novel here? The issue is very very simple...... Like u cant equate money with power?!? U are competely missing the point of why jesus even said that. Far more concerned with quoting exact scripture than the actual problem here. Do u honestly believe there is a one percent difference between the rothchild banksters owning the world and the amount of wealth They plundered? Likewise... The porne graphos ladies trade their souls for money and power. That is the point.
I think it's all right that we're discussing about this issue. I mean it's better than watching porn. Any discussion keeps the brain cells active.
not to offend anyone but i think it's okay to go into symantics n other silly stuff. i mean that's what friends do. talk silly. u dont have to do waterskiing or adventure sports to get the dopamine. at times its okay to talk silly. just my opinion, though.
^ I completely agree with you. From the time we are little children we make mistakes and are hurt and angry. "Experience is the name we give our mistakes." Oscar Wilde When we get older we are still susceptible to being duped and fooled. many of these porn hustlers count on us being lonely and depressed over any number of things, so they use that to get money from us. IMO, it's one thing to go to an adult store and buy a CD to bring home and "fap off" or watch porn on the internet sites. I think after a while if you work at it, you can overcome it, It's hard for some but you can. I think that sites like Twitter where these girls create narratives about their lives and lure guys in with Snapchat, Wish Lists, and other hustles and make them think their special while playing on their feelings is disgusting. They make their lives out to be so cool but in reality they are the ones who are in Vegas working as prostitutes, working the bars all night competing with the thousands of other hookers, having sex with strangers. The money may be OK but the dangers are real. They make it sound so awesome, but would you like to be involved in a relationship with a woman like that?
