premature ejaculation

I think it will help. I have the same issue

 

It helps a lot. I was badly in pe and ed. Both not anymore

 

It was sooo embarrassing. A motivation it became...both are...I wasn’t like this earlier. But definitely in the worst times

 

I came inside a girl too fast and at that time it was like near 90 days so it didn’t work for me.

 

Right. Understand. That’s again because you were full. How was the next day?

 

A bit better but not much

 

Actually nofap has negative effect on PE, can say that with experience.

 

Because you get sensitive more alive out of the dullness at first. In my experience I had no pe problem and could go for hours. With falling into Pmo and edging I developed ed And pe. Then starting to living it more instead of Pmo gradually brought me back to non pe. So in my experience the development of ed and pe are clearly coming from pmo

 

There is some correlation between excessive porn use and PE. Not fapping might help - https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/is-my-premature-ejaculation-related-to-my-porn-use

 

Thanks for the link! I am able to acheive an erection but my PE hits within 5 to 10 seconds of entering her. It is so embarrassing.

Some guys struggling with PE have said a lot of practice will increase stamnia like training for a marathon.

 

It’s embarrassing. Try to aim for a whole minute of being inside her before ejaculating.

Been there! I know how that feels. The girl told me that’s it?!?!

 

Ugh...half the time I finish right before I enter. ahhhhh

 

That means you need to de-sensitize your penis

 

Thank you for the link. The video is, no doubt, apropos.

I never had a problem with PE (other than 1 time in college). My problem was the opposite. I prided myself in being able to last a long time (Thanks to a lifetime of PMO) but what that really looked like, especially as the years went on, was:

• not being able to get hard enough and struggling to even get it in
• losing my erection during sex
• not being able to have an orgasm from sex (only from masturbation)

I have read posts on here about NoFap helping with PE, as well as posts about it making PE worse.
I have not had sex in 3 years (so I don't know if I have PE currently) but this is my experience:

I have tried off and on to stop masturbating for a number of years now. When I had some time off of masturbating I would frequently experience sensations like I was about to ejaculate from unlikely activities such as seeing a really hot girl, having a hot fantasy, walking, weight lifting, feeling stressed, spending too much money, yoga, driving, getting a massage . . .

Now, for the most part, those things never happened. It just felt like it was about to happen. My previous record was 129 days although at the time I was engaging in P and M quite a bit, I would just somehow stop before O. As long as I didn't O, it counted (in my warped mind). Then, when I had those sensations I would really really hope that I might "accidentally" have an O. For example, if I felt that while walking, I would keep on walking hoping that eventually I would release. Or, if I got really turned on by a girl, I would remember what happened while walking in the past, and then I would go for a nice long hike.

This time around, starting near the end of 2017, I have not been doing M at all. I am realising that I was extremely desensitised from years of excessive M. What has happened to me this year so far is that I have now had 10 releases from situations like what I described above. I was getting a massage and came from a woman touching my leg, I had a wet dream, I came from driving, and from walking, and while doing yoga, I came just from thinking about a hot girl at work, and . . . just yesterday I came in my pants at work just from stress and being in a strenuous position. Some of these times I wasn't even erect when I ejaculated.

Early on this year I started to wonder if perhaps I was a premature ejaculator all along. I recalled being in high school on the riflery team and ejaculating from being in the prone position with the keys in my pocket pressing awkwardly against my junk. From that point forward, I ejaculated almost every time I was shooting in the prone position. Even if I M'd twice before practice, it seemed like I couldn't stop it. Perhaps, unconsciously, it was experiences like that which motivated my excessive M.

Now, as I am getting re-sensitized, it seems like the accidents are happening more frequently and I'm losing control.

In my mind, I can totally relate to the quote above. Even though I have not had sex in three years, based on my recent experiences, it's hard to imagine getting anywhere near entering a woman without PE. I am sure that I would probably ejaculate as soon as she touched me, if not long before!

But, again, I haven't had sex recently, so I don't know for sure. Maybe I'll be surprised, or there will be a round 2 which goes better. Hopefully I will have an understanding partner . . .

 

I think if you go a long time without PMO, you're almost guaranteed to come fast the first time. What about round 2? What about using your mouth and hands while waiting for round 2?