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Problems with prejizz, touch and much more

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Angus McGyver, Jul 10, 2023.

What should I do in order to seek help?

  1. Contact a sexologist

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  2. Contact a coach/therapist

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  3. Contact a urologist

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  4. All of the above

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  1. Angus McGyver

    Angus McGyver Fapstronaut

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    Hello my fellow friends!
    It's a long time since I wrote anything here and although I haven't been fapping for over five years at this point, there ere several barriers I still have to overcome, even if NoFap has changed my life to the better in many ways.

    One of them is that my dick has become much more sensitive since the day I stopped fapping. I easily got a lot of prejizz (or pre-ejacualute) during my fapping years but since my last five-year streak started, it has become even more. I literally only need to be aroused for a few minutes and it literally pours out. The sticky feeling from it makes me really uncomfortable, jittery and tense in my groin-area.

    Going on a date (and even less touch a girl for more than a few seconds) is therefore not even to consider as the prejizz would keep pouring out, plus it has given me sort of mini-orgasms in the past. Thus, intercourse or even oral-sex is not even to think about as I would jizz within a minute or less. I sometimes wonder if I will ever be able to have a sex-life at all and whether I need to see a urologist and/or sexologist or something.

    Worst case scenario (I'm 35 years old at the moment) is that my dick will continue on being that sensitive and thus, I keep on shying away from dates and/or interactions with women altogether which will lead to even bigger self-esteem issues in the future. All I want in the future is a wife and children but I don't know how that's gonna happen if I even can't get laid (because of the above-issues) or have a sex-life to begin with.

    The issue above, combined with the feelings of loneliness that being single some times causes, have really taken the upper-hand and I don't know how to resolve the first issue to begin with. It's hard to have any confidence sexually when you're constantly afraid you're gonna jizz your pants during a date.
    I am constantly beating myself up because of the above as there doesn't seem to be an easy way out.

    Anyone here who has been in similar position or know anyone who has?
     
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  2. Semtex

    Semtex Fapstronaut

    What an inspiring performance you continue to display, many including myself would kill to get to 3 months not to speak of 5 years!

    As to your issue, I won't be much help. Others have claimed that Cowper's gland (the cells that produce precum) can be inhibited by finasteride. Perhaps you could try that but 1. there may be serious side effects 2. I've personally taken the drug and didn't notice that effect.

    Why do you worry about it so much? I can't imagine women being upset or turned off by precum. Just get out there and bury the carrot.
     
  3. TheEpicLolo564

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    It's hard to tell from here what is really going on. I have a suspicion, however, that your problem may be caused by - after years of fapping and bad fapping habits, porn related dysfunctions - and underlying cause deep within your pelvic floor.

    You see, stop fapping really brings big advantages, and you probably already overcome the biggest challenge, you are already on a 5 year streak, props to that mate. However, after many years of masturbation with porn (I assume) and other stuff I mentioned, that can leave some bad habits really deep in your subconscious, some of them involuntary.

    I got PE (premature ejaculation) for a very long time even tho I wasn't a porn addict or something like that (but yea I did masturbate to porn for many years) so after some research I encounter some information about pelvic floor muscles and their function. To make this short we have 2 main muscles that are important to pee and cum, and the other one to hold a poop(PC) but the first one is important for now.

    The first muscle is called BC (bulbocavernosus), is the muscle which can ALSO(as well as PC) hold a pee when you are actually peeing, and is the one that you can kinda control it when you are erect, making it move slightly. So my suspicion is that you have a weak BC muscle, maybe because you are constantly using it when it should be relaxed or you use it too many times throught many years. Anyway if you think this is valid for you or have other questions send me a message.
     
  4. I think this is evidence that you have a medical condition of some kind. If it was happening even during fapping years, then it is not caused by nofap. I can see why it would be made worse due to the sensitivity caused by nofap, but still doesn't mean its the underlying cause. It's abnormal, so thus something is wrong with your reproductive system. You may see a doctor although I have my doubts at how they will help.
     
  5. Angus McGyver

    Angus McGyver Fapstronaut

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    Thanks mate!
    The reason I worry about it is the feelings and jittery sensations that it brings (not so much that women will dislike it or get turned off by it) after only a few minutes of arousal. It feels sticky almost right away in my underpants and I fear that it will eventually show off on the outside some time. Not only that, many times it feels like I will jizz any minute if the arousal continues. Sometimes, I've had these mini-orgasms just from arousal and can't even imagine being on a date due to a fear of jizzing my pants.
    Even less can I imagine have a sex-life of some kind (especially a healthy and functioning one).
     
  6. Angus McGyver

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    I have thought about it many times and that's probably it. Perhaps, it (the BC-muscle) could be so weak due to all my years of running competitively which has put a lot of strain and stress on the surrounding muscles, potentially weakening it further. I've also experienced this regular semen-leakage while peeing which has many times made it feel sticky in my pants, plus the urine-leakage (or after-drip) many of those pees are causing. Should I seek a urologist, sexologist or something similar that could help me with it?
    Right now, it feels like my life is slipping away with no sex or dating-life to talk about which is making me depressed sometimes, as I want a family in the future.
     
  7. TheEpicLolo564

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    Yeah, you know what else could it be? There is a great book called The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity by Daniel Reid that talks a lot about semen retention (pretty much NoFap) and the importance of sex and also that abstinence is not a good answer. Anyways somewhere around there tells you that a lot of abstinence of sex (and also expulsing semen) for a lot of time can cause a lot of wet dreams and I'd say prejizz too.

    You know I'll really suggest you to read it, at least the sex part which is chapter 6 or 7 which are the tao of ying and yang and ejaculation control. It will really answer your questions in less time than going around on forums, however, I don't think the book explains too much in detail some things like how the bc muscle can get overtrained or how can you tell if your bc and pc muscles are too tight all of the time. Find the ebook online and give it a quick look my guy.
     
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