Proposal: New forum section named "Is my dick big enough?" to organize the 100s of threads about it

I really cannot see why someone asking about "Is my dick too small" should be forbidden and deleted @Marcelo48.

We have had some very dubious threads on these forums which were much more concerning. E.g. Where were the weirdest places you jerked off? That just called for a list of sleazy and salacious posts and why? Did the OP have some genuine anxiety or a need to know this. No, this is just locker room type gossip. It was only for titillation in my opinion.

There are numerous questions that get repeated. Much more frequent: Is this a relapse? One specific scenario is repeated over and over again: I had a wet dream / nocturnal emission of semen / nightfall - Is that a relapse? These are often asked by people that are newbies and genuinely anxious. I don't think they should be forbidden and deleted.

 

Another extreme point of view. Being anxious that your penis is too small is not glorifying it! It is a legitimate concern. This is a sex positive site. Many boys and young men fear having sex in real life because they think they will get laughed at. So, they stay with online fakery. Surely, helping to allay their fears so they can aspire to a proper sexual relationship is a good thing. So, why ban the topic altogether?

 

I said "glorify and discuss about it".
Both verbs connected by the conjunction "and" may or may NOT be mutually inclusive in their references.
You can figure that out from context alone.

 

Those types of threads should be deleted, not only are they weird and and unnecessary they're extremely triggering as well. They serve no purpose other than to show they still have a perverted mind corrupted by porn honestly.

I think definitely a FAQ or even a sticky as others have suggested would work best, the exact same things constantly get asked so I think having answers to all their questions would benefit them and save others from having to repeat themselves.

 

Thanks for being honest. A significant percentage of men worry about their dick size. I was around before internet porn and I can assure you that it was something boys were incredibly sensitive and worried about. I was. Porn has made it even worse.

 

I agree Ginny. But this thread was reported, yet it remained. Yet there are calls for banning a legitimate question.

 

This thread was reported? If so by who? And why?

 

Why? Because it was weird, unnecessary and extremely triggering. Whodunnit? Idk.

 

The topic of this thread isn't unnecessary and nor is it triggering, it's a legitimate concern as what to do with those flood of posts. I assume Alexander posted it seeking feedback, but I could be wrong.

 

Read the top box in my post. I am talking about an old thread about 'where people have jerked off in the past'.

 

Okay, you said this post was reported in your other one and so I thought you meant this thread here, nevermind I was mistaken.

 

No probs.

 

I completely agree with this. I honestly don't understand why people feel so bothered by the mere existence of threads. A certain topic/title being triggering is one thing, but if topics are repetitive, who cares? It's not like anyone is forced to click on a topic/thread and invest energy and time into reading and replying to something they're not even interested in. Maybe it's still helpful or interesting for someone else. New members join every day. It's like going out to eat and seeing a pizzeria on every corner. You don't have to go inside and look at the menu if you know you don't want pizza.

The reality is, people are lazy/uninformed and just want answers to their problems in the fastest way possible. So they mostly likely won't bother using the search function or maybe even checking for FAQ/sticky threads. Maybe a section for 'personal advice' or something with trigger warnings would be the best, so people would be at least forced to think what section to post in before triggering anyone in off-topic.

 

Wise and slightly a$$holeish, Mr. Intelli Gent here your friendly neighborhood know it all.
If you have to ask the question, "Is my penis bug enough?" The answer is probably, " No, no it's not. Neither is your self confidence. Neither is your skill at love making. Neither is your imagination. Neither is your personality."
Like @Alexander said. You've got bigger things to worry about.

 

I see what you did there

 

Lol that was completely unintentional

 

I would say the opposite. The answer is probably, "yes, it is". Either way, a simple yes or no answer is not sufficient. A discussion is necessary to reassure them. Why is that too much to ask? You don't have to do it, but some of us will do so.

 

I still disagree. But if you want facts or reassurance, Google average pecker stats. I think women prefer around 6" but the average Male is about 4".
If you are that worried about it, you are most likely gonna drive away any partner, because believe it or not most women genuinely dont care about your tally, they want an emotional relationship, they feel and get more out of foreplay than they do actual insertion, they like being the center of your attention not your penis.
And if you keep asking if it's big enough, you are subliminally programming her to believe that it is NOT big enough.
The fact that this cat is worried about his size points to deeper problems both spiritually and psychologically.

 

Not trying to be annoying but the average is about 5.5".
4" is way to small to be the average

 

You are right Hizzo. The other guy was wrong.