RE: Just Looking for Tip to be Celibate, From the definition of being Celibate

Celebrating Celibacy!

  1. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

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    Hey, Again.
    Celibate group.
    Or should I call us the Celibate Warriors.
    Well, whatever talk is cheap.

    I am still Celibate, that has and possibly will never change.

    I read the definition in Group on Celibacy.
    Be Celibate not only in Action but in word, thoughts etc.

    Does any hold dear to this definition?

    I would appreciate advice on how you hold to Celibacy and purity.

    Thanks.

    I got the thread thing now.
     
  2. There is an excellent book on it so called brahamcharya vast form whic is PRACTICE OF BRAHAMCHARYA BY SWAMI SIVANANDA
    Check it once...
     
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  3. GeeJ

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    Thanks, man.
     
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  4. GeeJ

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    Thanks, Bro.
     
  5. Paulie567

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    I hold true to the definition listed in the description. I have not had a sexual encounter with another person for approximately 8 years, and I am on day 422 of Nofap. How I hold true to celibacy is basically the definition of celibacy in this group. Celibacy begins in the mind, where the mind is the body will follow. Sexual thoughts lead to sexual words, sexual words lead to sexual deeds, etc, etc.

    I was the original creator of this group before I took some time away to sort though some personal issues, and handed over administration of the group to others. During that Time I did not give up on my desire to live a celibate life, though I still struggled with masturbation and porn. I no longer struggle with those things because I now full live the groups definition of celibacy.

    When I created the definition of celibacy used in this group, it was after a lot of research into various groups of celibates and the wisdom found within them, technically I am not the creator of the definition.

    My tips for living the definition of celibacy; If you mind starts thinking of sexual things, think of something else as soon as possible, the longer you think on such things the more power you give those thoughts. Everything begins in the mind, you are nothing and can do nothing without the mind. If your mind is focused on pure thoughts then sexual thoughts, words and deeds are not present. Over time the mind is retrained, if we discipline the mind and teach it a new way of thinking, we are almost recreating ourselves. We become the person we want to be and are not subject to the whimsical fantasies of the mind and hormones. Think of it this way, the mind has two parts, one is a loyal, loving dog, and the other is a killer wolf. The part you feed will be stronger and kill the other.

    I believe my wolf is dead, I have had no desire to masturbate or watch porn for 8 months or more, and no desire for sexual encounters for years.

    I hope this has been of help to you.

     
  6. GeeJ

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    Thank you, Paulie.
    This will help me.

    Do you suspect the feeling if wanting to have sex will ever come back?
     
  7. Paulie567

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    The feeling will only come back if my mind thinks about sexual things.
     
  8. Onigiri

    Onigiri Fapstronaut

    To me I view lust, sexual fantasies and erections like “natural things” because we have a body. It is true the mind has to be trained to doesn’t think in S but instead of obsessing too much about it or repress, for me is more helpful to let them go.
    Leaving them alone they will pass away and even if they don’t pass away in a minutes I try not to struggle, breathing, thinking about why they raised, my mood and my feelings.
     
  9. Paulie567

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    I agree, erections and hormones are normal. But I think lust and sexual fantasies are not a normal part of the body because they exist in the mind not the body, the are a product of modern society, does a dog lust or have sexual fantasies, I doubt they would.

    I agree that repression is not helpful, sexual sublimation also known as sexual transmutation is the best method, which basically means using you sexual energy for other activities, ie self improvement or creativity.
     
  10. Jonny123

    Jonny123 Fapstronaut

    Hi Paulie - great to see you back. You may remember me as one of the early members of the group. I tried to keep it alive and then I lapsed myself _ delighted to be back. I want to concentrate on improving myself.
     
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  11. Paulie567

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    Yes I remember you Jonny123. It's good being back, and as you can see I am going strong.
     

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