Really tired of being alone

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by RamboErecto, Nov 15, 2019.

  1. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    So Im 30, Im tired of fighting, retaining was a potential solution but after experience it I discover that it helps me to feel better but I still alone.

    You already know the case: Good looking, fine person, living alone, having a job, working out, meeting new people.

    I just cant take it anymore, I want to kill myself
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  2. Tud

    Tud Fapstronaut

    You need to do something against it! When you’re at home, the situation will not change by itself.

    Go out! Not for the goal to find something, go out to have fun and this will lead to what you’re looking for.
  3. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    Tried to do something about 10 years and counting, Im really sick and tired of fight for nothing, I do changes in my life but I still alone. No one girl will love me no matters what I do. Im sick and tired, I wished never to be alive.
  4. Tud

    Tud Fapstronaut

    I think you have the wrong focus. You want something, you have aims, and you are fighting for this. But the way to go is not straight in those cases.
    In this case love yourself first and be selfish. Live your life in between the people and not beside them.
    I believe you will find what you’re looking for very indirectly and surprisingly.

    There is no alternative to improve an believe in yourself, or do you have one?
  5. TheLightOne

    TheLightOne Fapstronaut

  6. tanyi666

    tanyi666 Fapstronaut

    You really need somebody loves you, cares about you. So do I.
  7. It's TIME to STOPPP

    It's TIME to STOPPP Fapstronaut

    have you ever asked yourself: why am I fighting? What am I fighting for?

    Without a goal or aim, it will be hard going through this journey. If you're genuinely tired, then stop fighting! Nobody is forcing you to do nofap, but YOURSELF!

    Why are you here? You want to be a better version of yourself, so do it! Stop grumping and start working. Why are you alone? Is it your problem or other people's problem? We live for a reason, don't waste this precious life as you're not going to get a second life.
  8. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    Today I go for lunch with a girl that I tought that we were fine, then she rejected me and now im feeling like shit.

    Want to kill myself, but I cant even do that

    I even take the blue pill before, thinking that I would have sex, then I dont and I wated a very expensive pill

    So, everything sucks, and unfortunately theres nothing you can say to help me or makes me feel better

    Not want to live anymore
  9. RandomStrangerOnEarth

    RandomStrangerOnEarth New Fapstronaut

    What about making some friends but really taking the time to know them? Try to not go in with expectations for sex and just have fun with what's present and taking it one day at a time. I never had sex before but to be honest I think it's probably overrated and it seems to go by so fast that you realize it wasn't a must have unless you're already deep in a relationship and want to have a family of some sort. Overthinking can sometimes get the best of you at times and just be in the moment.
  10. w95chris

    w95chris Fapstronaut

    Enjoy your own company and be happy on your own. Don't start with: "Oh I can't I tried it and blah blah blah" you want to be miserable all your life? You'll be an old man who curses kids for stepping on his lawn. Or worse people will avoid you like the plague because you would be depressed all the time
    Say that you are in a relationship what would change? You can be in a relationship and still be alone. What never thought of that have you?
    Try something because you want to, because it will make you feel better. Not because you expect something from it
  11. w95chris

    w95chris Fapstronaut

    Great and why spend time typing here? A girl rejected you and now you feel like shit? Well get in line! Everyone feels like that after a rejection but there's two choices here:
    1) Keep complaining and become "the moaner"
    2)Pick up your pieces and move on. We all get tired sometimes but it takes effort to keep going and this is what you must do in order to move forward

    Take your pick
    Cool I Can Use Spaces likes this.
  12. have you thought about dating other dudes as an experiment?
  13. Hold it in

    Hold it in Fapstronaut

    Last edited: Nov 20, 2019
  14. Demodectic

    Demodectic Fapstronaut


    I know how you feel, I have been there. Take these days to work and improve on yourself and read books on dating such as 3% man by Corey Wayne and books on how to make new friends. So long as you work to improve yourself and also if you study the methods on how to make new friends and get dates with girls then you will not be alone for too much longer.

    Dont give up when the miracle is just around the corner.
  15. Felix0071

    Felix0071 Fapstronaut

    I am looking to develop a sincere and deep friendship, with regular phone calls.
    Im 23 years old, male.
    My phone number is +491723084128!!

    kind regards,

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