Relying on youself

Just wanted to put out a concept that helped me on my journey with NoFap and through life
Rely on yourself: I mean it's good to ask people for advice and all that stuff but the real Action must be driven from yourself.
-Stop Relying on others and start taking action
-put in effort to beat any addiction and stop procrastinating ,relapsing , and asking for help afterwards.(it's like putting your problems on others people's shoulders)
-Really take the time to think about every step you take through life , like when your about to relapse or smoke ask your self =>( what am i doing now ? oh i'am about to light up a cigarette , it feels good but is this action making me closer to my goals as man in life ?
-Man up , we used to be Hunters and fierce warriors hundreds of years ago , everyday fighting for the survival of our tribe from lions/dinoseaurs etc , but now a days society is doing it's best to make us forget about this
-Stop Self Pity , (for people with depression) it's okey mate we all've been through rough times hating people/problems , it's time to forget about that bullshit and Accept new thoughts into your mind , just stick around positive people , read about self improvement , stop crying like a baby , you have one life on earth , make sure that it will be the best full of laughter and joy .
-Every time you think you can't do something by yourself , just dive in alone , just fully put yourself out there , throw your self into the fire(kidding) those fearful experiences are essential for shaping your Identity as a True warrior/male .

==> my intentions for this thread is not asking to stop looking for help from other people , this thread is about assuming that nobody is going to take action for you but you , nobody will be around when your going to relapse but you and your thoughts , i mean the best thing to do is to be inspired by other people's advice/success stories but you need to put that weight on yourself and take Action to make it work !