rewiring with prostitutes

How do you know ?

It was difficult to go on a relationship after going to the prostitute ?
How did you deal with that ?

 

No, it was not difficult. The relationship with prostitutes leaves you a bit empty, as porn does. (Although porn is worse, I think.) And it is just about animal sex. In this relationship, it is more romantic, it is a much better experience, much more fulfilling. There is no comparison. This is why I say you should try a real relationship, not waste time with prostitutes.

 

I agree with @Anonyme13 ! I was thinking do the same - I think it´s better/clever to go to a swingers club than pay hookers!

I realize here that some guys just want to have a sex experience, others want to have a real relationship with a woman and we must respect both sides! Because between having sex for itself and have sex with feeling the worst option is masturbating behind the computer thinking by doing that you are doing a good thing.

 

Agreed

 

I had the same idea for a while but then decided that it would be a bad idea. Its not just a physical thing.... Its an emotional and mental and spiritual connection that you have with a woman. You cant just get the sex part and think youll be ok.


It's ok to give up having sex for a while. Actually, for me it was quite a relief. I had more time to pursue other things that i liked

 

One thing is that after your orgasm you have this great feeling and a feeling of being lazy and just laying there wherever the deed was done. I actually think that is a time you take to cuddle and have that spiritual and mental connection with your partner. That is a time to connect on a deeper level than just a physical thing. Usually after sex that just seems natural, it might just be me but I really don't think it is. When you are paying someone for sex you are just feeding your lust and then afterwards there is no connection just emptiness. It sounds a lot like when you PMO and after there is nothing, just emptiness. Just my two cents

 

mdz, speaking from personal experience this is a horrible idea. At first I justified seeing prostitutes as way to gain sexual experience for my future girlfriend and relieve stress but it becomes an addiction all on its own (and a very expensive one). This could make your ED even worse. I never had ED issues watching porn, but I had ED issues during sessions with prostitutes before. I'm not sure exactly why it happened but it could be attributed to the girl not being as hot as ones I'd seen before, or her "service" wasn't up to par, or even something as simple as we just didn't click. As others have mentioned, you begin to objectify woman in a even more twisted manner and all you care about is yourself getting off while you don't care if your partner enjoyed it or even if it was painful for her. If you treated your girlfriend like many do with a prostitute, you're just asking to be dumped.

I recently posted my personal story on this thread about my problems with prostitutes.
http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/addicted-to-porn-escorts.37939/

 

I also can say that from personal experience it was the worst thing I ever did in my life. I stopped porn and started to feel immensely horny so I thought it would be a good idea to "rewire with prostitutes - i.e. with real sex".

I had sex with 4 prostitutes in total and I can only say I will never get over the shame that I feel for what I did. Firstly, it is no different to porn in that you will spend lots of time online looking at the perfect prostitute and fantasizing about what you want to do with her, texting, calling etc. Secondly, in having sex with her you are virtually wanking to porn because you have dehumanised someone and are using them just for sex.

My experience having sex with prostitutes almost drove me to suicide. I would recommend against it massively and if you do go for it I hope it doesn't affect you as badly as it affected me. Good luck!

 

i just jizzed in my pants by reading all this posts ...LOL


Anyway i can say something 4 sure.

 

People can't seriously believe this shit is okay. Yes, prostitutes are real people. Yes, the men (and women) who use prostitution are what create the demand for it, but they did not come up with the idea. Just as someone came up with the idea for filmed prostitution (porn).

This thread is filled to the brim with people who either defend prostitution or they hate it. Every single person on here who has actually experienced it says no. Hell, even Alexander said no.

You are just being a stubborn asshat who just wants his PMO fix from prostitutes. It's not real sex. No matter how you think about it, it will never be real sex. People just though that around like its fucking candy. Real sex is not being that guy that fucks a different girl every day. Real sex is not using and objectifying women for orgasm.

People can try to justify what they are doing all they want. The only reason people don't try for a relationship with "real sex" is because they are scared of commitment. They don't want to be tied down. This is the idea that porn and prostitution have brought with it. My little 15 year old (pseudo) brother dumped the first real girlfriend he had as soon as he realized that being with lots of girls is considered cool.

Leaving those poor girls and using them for sex is cool. Disgusting.

Is this really what we want our following generations to think? Justify prostitution all you want. You are lying to yourself. You are rationalizing. They are filthy and the ones that made the choice to be where they are are just as bad as people who create porn.

 

^^^^^^^^

What he said

 

No ("real") experiences here in that field.
But I used to fantasize about it. And I tried to motivate myself with the fantasy of it. I would say to myself:
If I manage X I will reward myself by going to a prostitute.

And sometimes X was XXX (porn). So I basically tried to lurk myself out of the pmo-addiction by promising myself a prostitute. What a stupid idea! Since the fantasy of acting out my fantasies with a prostitute was just another fantasy I didn't stop pmo at all.

Those kind of ideas were born out of my horny, porn-infiltrated brain. Do you see why I have to stop it all?