Saddest part about porn...

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Darkstar 22.84, Mar 20, 2017.

  1. Darkstar 22.84

    Darkstar 22.84 Fapstronaut

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    Are the reviews.

    Man, those poor bastards have nothing to do with their lives than comment on a girl's behavior during a natural act, in an unnatural setting.

    What struck me the most was this comment on reddit, about a pale skin girl, who was a cheerleader:

    'She's a pothead. Likes to smoke weed, likes to suck cock. Is a cheerleader. So, she's basically a unicorn.'


    The guy thought she doesn't exist. Get it? Like his life's SO LIMITED to the fucking screen he can't go out and look for her.
    A version of her. He doesn't believe in her. She's a mythological animal. That's how low his own self-esteem is.

    To think that there are girls out there who will love you for who you are and expect nothing in return is a scary thought. Especially if your self-esteem is on the floor.

    During my last fappening session, I found that I was feeling pity for the girl.
    Sure, her body was amazing, it was like watching the Statue of Liberty undressing. But during the sex act itself, I felt bad for watching her smile. She looked so vulnerable. And exposed.

    'Someone hurt this girl. Someone stunted her emotional developing at a young age. That's why she's doing this.'

    I was thinking this with my dick in my hand. But what about me? Huh?
    Who stunted my development?

    Is it normal as a man to deny myself the pleasures and beauty of life?
    Is it normal to chose porn over real connections with real women?
    Is it normal to feel unworthy of love?

    In a sense, a wanker and a porn star are related. Almost kin.
    They both share a fear of not being wanted, not being accepted for who they are.
    A slut, in my opinion, is someone who craves love. And uses his or her body to get it.
    Love in the physical, Ram-BAM Thank you, Ma'am! style of porn is no love.

    Porn is not love.
     
  2. Agoodguy

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    I know. I abhor the way some guys at school talk about women, girls and p stars, like if they're objects and nothing more.
    I know I feel guilty now looking back on when I pmo'ed and looking at the woman's smile, so fake. Probably covering up a dark, broken past and broken soul. I feel guilty too you're not alone.
    This is so true. I used to ponder upon this as well. They are both similar because of some pain that they encountered both looking for a way to escape it or express how that pain makes them feel, in a sick twisted sort of way.
     
  3. So true. Bro.
    I myself sometime feel the the same. I sometime realise that the girl in these movies must have so unbearable circumstances that she must have to give up her individuality.

    And maybe she was in ~~~~brain fog~~~~

    wtf that is also making some sense :O
     
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  4. Trey32112

    Trey32112 Fapstronaut

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    Good post man. I think it speaks directly to the harm porn does to everyone involved. It's an illusion, one that will make you feel like it's better than the real thing but it's not. It's not our friend.
     
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  5. MeTP

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    COULDN'T AGREE MORE ! I'M SO SICK OF THIS PORN FUCKED UP THINGS.
     
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    The Truth .
     
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  7. Aiyoshi

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    We all lived this dark start in our lives, and what it's most sad about it is that it's hard to decide what's worst, this guy who sees a girl like a unicorn or people who seek the "unicorn."

    All those feelings associated with this, are normal, to feel that there's something missing is normal, and people feeling like this is also normal. People who solve this problem by pursuing any kind of addiction are normal, and people who solve the addiction too are normal.

    It all comes down to what's the best path to take, will we run towards our mutual distruction or run toward our life long dreams? That's the choice we're responsable to make. That's what's there for us.
     
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