Self-Mastery May 2017. Time to be PMO-Free in May, official monthly commitment thread.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Alexander, Apr 30, 2017.

  1. joe242

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    Going strong still but I keep thinking about girls way too much and it's affecting my concentration. How do I stop this?
     
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  2. chancer17

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    Day 2 done! keep it up guys!!
     
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  3. Hassan

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    Just saw this today, I'm in of course, last relapse was 24th April. Let's do this guys!

    My reasons to quit PMO:
    1. I want to be interested in life. I can't focus well enough. It seems to me that I am always the last to understand any concept among my peers.
    2. I need to work hard, study, and learn more. Yet, I don't have the energy to do so, because, my mind is seeking easy rewards (i.e., PMO).
    3. My body is getting weaker, my joints, my back, and fitness level even though I am in my youth.
    4. I might die at any moment, and I don't want to die sinful. I want to go to heaven.
     
  4. I'm in guys doing the full 90 days Porn and Masturbation free but this will be a good landmark!

    Here's to it!
     
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  5. max9292

    max9292 Fapstronaut

    Today it is day 5. I had great difficulties today to socialize with my friends at university. I was, let's say, as turned off, it was impossible to my brain to follow conversation. I was very bad for this thing and the reaction was the will to come back home and PMO, because in PMO I could find relax, I could fell loved (as if those girls were there to love me...), I could fell the time dissolved and every fantasy could realize. All this is an illusion, because I would have still been worse than now. Anyway , this experience, with strong urges, made me understand how it is important rebooting. I want to be alive, I want to be able to socialize, to converse with others, I want to fell a normal person (even if with a great problem called PMO). In this state how could I find a girlfriend? Ok I can expand social context but if I am not able to be present at the real moment it's very difficult. I can say only for today I don't want to PMO, just this day because I have no control on tomorrow.
     
  6. Force user 1284

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    Let's fucking do this!
     
  7. Stardweller1

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    Three days in and I fall. Maybe doing this by month isn't the best tactic for me....

    Still, if anyone needs encouragement, let me know; I'll stick around to provide morale.
     
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  8. Force user 1284

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    Good luck ;)
    Today is day 16 for me,Just watch your thoughs,avoid porn And u Will be fine
     
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  9. Stardweller1

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    Yeah, it's the watching of the thoughts that gets me. Once I fail at that, avoiding the P and M becomes harder.

    Any tips for redirecting?
     
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  10. abutrustworthy

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    May is an important month for me, I absolutely don't need to be a slave of orgasm any more. I know I have committed so many times in the past and I have failed, but it will never decrease my commitment to let go of this pathetic addiction. I will promise that I will whatever it takes me to do to stay away from lusting, masturbation, orgasm, perfectionism, OCD. I also promise that I will not self medicate through this addiction, rather I will keep validating myself and keep letting go of emotions that will bring me down. I ask God to help me with this commitment and I hope you guys wish me luck with this commitment.
     
  11. Man With No Name

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    Sign my haughty ass up sorry not much more to say than that this month.
     
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  12. Stardweller1

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    So I've failed for May, but I have a goal of a 30-day streak (to start). Objective: 2 June!
     
  13. jack1234

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    Self control........ that's the key. We need to hold and feel the urge pass through our body. Im in, and i will start my 90 day reboot today. Everyone, good luck i hope none of you ever relapse may you all be blessed!
     
  14. w800

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    Be strong pal, it's not easy to get out of this shitty habit. i read this a few minutes ago:

    "if i quit now, i will soon be back to where i started. And when i started, i was desperately wishing to be where i am now"
     
  15. K.C_Cage

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    I'm in. I succeeded in April to go an entire calendar month without relapsing and was successful. I'm ready to do it again.
     
  16. Ashu Rocky

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    I'm Totally in!

    My First Indulgence here..
    Lez see how it goes!
     
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  17. hukona

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    I've doin' it wrong for so long. This month I sure oughta know what it finally feels like to be Doin' it right
     
  18. Double Lion

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    I am happy to join. Day one. Going to be a good journey. Here we go (again).
     
  19. johnsmith17

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    Haha i love the song
    It should be in the Guardian of the galaxy vol.3
     
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  20. Fringe

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    im in
     
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