Hey brotha...from what I've read its good to try and not sleep on your stomic. I had wet dreams after 20 days NoFap also...i remember thinking about the pootang before going to sleep though both times. I think if we try and shift our thoughts from thinking about booty too much, then can probably prevent them. (Try reading before bed vs tv or wifi). Thoughts are powerful. Think and grow rich is a good book, all about telling your mind what to think. Biggest gift we have is the ability to control our thoughts. As in the video above, the chapter on sexual transmission talks about shifting those sexual thoughts into creative ones. And chasing our goals and dreams instead of the pootang. And that orgasm without ejaculation is some bullshit lol. I tried it man it's hard not to go all the way. And I can't really see the point in it unless it's your wifey. Because obviously she might leave you if your not giving her some D atleast once a week.
No it's not. I'm on over a 4 year streak. Saves a lot of energy and mess, but nofap saves even more and is far healthier option imho.
You've gone 4 years with out busting one time well getting laid? That's crazy man how the heck do u do it? What's the trick? And how old are u?
Yeh man, yeh it's a bit full on I guess. Got a pdf book online, there are 2 taoist texts, dont recall the name/s now but the shorter one was better. I just read that and started the practice. Took ages of hurting myself and finding it too difficult to block, but got through eventually and kept going. Was fapping, edging at the time and was also able to have sex with a parter and not blow despite her urging me to. Just told her no, not going to do that. Made it kinda awkward, but felt good to not spill the seeds and then get the guilt trip, not wearing condoms and all that fun stuff. Main trick is to use your fingers at the very base of your member, under your balls where it curves around a bend, and go (bang or fap) as long as you can, until you just cross the threshold / point of no return, then quickly and super strongly squeeze off the pipeline (at the bend, under balls at the base) that the seed would travel down on it's way from your balls. You need to do it really strong, because the spasm of orgasm is super strong and if it overpowers your grip it fking hurts and wrecks your O at the same time. That's pretty much it. Os are not as mind blowing, but the spasm still happens, you just keep your load on board and don't get that feeling of glowing super cosmic liquid escaping through the channel, ie ejaculation. You still need rest afterwards, just not as much. There is more to the practice, like creating a circuit to circulate the energy around your system, but honestly I never have been able to get that process started with any efforts, and find myself incredulous of the whole idea. If you exercise the prostate muscle enough, you can eventually close the gates at the right moment without needing to use your hands. I did not focus on that too much, but would have if I actually had a real partner to keep practising with. I still find no PMO just as rewarding as everyone else, and suppose had an advantage of already building some discipline over the years. I am 32. It took me at least 5 years from the time i first found out about it. Getting older, spilling seed becomes more of a grind, but yeh, being young we're all overflowing with jizz all the time it seems. Ah, life.
Thanks a lot. Your point about wet dream is spot on. I shall do that and see for myself. About the orgasm without ejaculation thing, I don't know man. The thing is you gotta be ready to relapse while learning that shit. I am not saying it is impossible, but it's hard and I'm not sure if worth the effort. You will still feel exhausted as kayesem said, and I was not going anywhere with it without a partner. Coz when you are trying that alone, it triggers the masturbation circuits in the mind and the next thing you know, you want to watch porn real bad and ejaculate to let go of the tension built up. With the help of a partner, I guess still there is a shot, but it will be more like cooling down a bit just before ejaculating and then going again.
I got a BJ tonight and tried that shit..i grabbed it kind of early and just kept squeezing it lol. Can you use it make you last longer in bed also I guess too? I just stopped before the point of no return to be safe.
hahahahahah, that's awesome. Yep you can last longer, and then just normal O later if you still are intent on busting a nut. It's better to grab it too early than too late! Good luck, happy practising : )
Has it ever happened where u feel like you have to piss every min to get everything out? I wonder if i squeezed to hard or something?
yeh sounds familiar. you learn to differentiate between needing to pee and the O, they can feel similar. Basically, if you are hard and getting busy, you never need to pee. Having an erection blocks off the urination function and i think it stops young guys from wetting the bed. start popping boners in your sleep, no more bed wetting. Be careful and try not to hurt yourself or anyone else. You'll be right.
