The key to my last post was "I would hate to lose someone who has such great qualities due to a temporary porn addiction conflicting what really attracts me. I would also hate to keep her in a relationship that I should end due to lack of that strong physical attraction." I don't know for sure which it is. I am leaning more towards genuine attraction, but I don't know. I am not purposely messing up her life. I assume you are suggesting that I should trust myself with the lack of attraction and just end it.