Last night this girl I am dating, her roommate (a guy) and myself went to some hookah lounge. Both her and her roommate were drunk before I stopped by their house. I got there and drove to the lounge. My girl was drunk. She quickly made friends with someone at the table next to ours and started dancing with him. i shrugged it off. This guy though was clearly turned on by my girl's dancing/touch or whatever and started getting real close. i don't think they kissed and honestly I wasn't letting it faze me but I seen him try and reach up her skirt and slap her ass or whatever. And she didn't stop it or anything. The way I figure, if I showed I was mad she would have continued doing it, and honestly, i knew who she was going home with (me), so what's there really to stress about? I just couldn't help but thinking how pathetic this guy was though, because it's not like my girl was solely dancing with him, she was dancing with me too, making out with me at times, and also encouraging her roommate to dance too. Like if you are this guy, why would you want to involve yourself in all that? I can't understand guys who want to basically be a side dude. To me that shows you have a female spirit, and I don't know if that comes off offensive to women or not, it's just how I view this guy. So when we got back to her place, her and her roommate started like wrestling each other. They have a special kind of relationship. I don't think they had sex yet, but I was looking at it all and I'm like, why is this guy on top of this girl? I like her roommate, like I mean I think he's a good person, but it happened again with another guy and my question is the same; why are you trying to involve yourself like that with the girl that someone else is dating..especially when the guy is right there looking at you? So now basically i encountered two guys in one night with a female spirit. Eventually her roommate went back to his bedroom and slept and me and this girl had unprotected sex. And then again this morning. I trust her enough to not be having sex with other men at the same time that she's dating me. Even though none of what I stated that happened last night should embolden that trust. I've only been dating her for two months now; im 35 yrs old and hardly ever in my life went on dates, let alone with the same person and never for 2 months. At the same time, i'm not really trying to put her on blast and ask her about the roommate. She also has a third roommate who is a girl and this girl says that they love each other lol. Mind you I just met these three's company two months ago. We all are in our mid 30s. I'm trying to be level headed about it and am wondering if I should just dead all this and end it with her or continue to trust her. I don't know how many more times i can go to a lounge and watch her flirt with guys and see guys try and touch up on her. I don't know how much more of this roommate situation I can see without basically conceding to the guy or just calling them both out. But I like getting laid lol. And honestly, she's really sweet when we talk and on the phone and even in person when we aren't at some lounge. Just all the excess baggage. It got me feeling a little self conscious.