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Shrinkage of 6 years

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Hockeypuck69, Aug 5, 2022.

  1. Hockeypuck69

    Hockeypuck69 Fapstronaut

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    I’m at the lowest point of my life. Beyond depressed. I wish I never started this addiction my freshman year of high school and I should’ve stopped when my flaccid and erect penis shrank. Now it’s too late for me at 21 years old. Wish I could go back. No morning wood and smaller penis and less horny. I hate myself.
     
  2. bertieboy

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    I can relate to this, my cock has shrank as well and I also have erectile dysfunction but I think it will go back to normal after a period of abstinence and a reboot. I think it has been over masturbated and is sort of saying enough is enough I need to rest for a while. I can promise you it isn't too late. I have been addicted to live webcam sex for years, I joined NoFap 3 weeks ago started a 90 day reboot and am already seeing results. I have tried all kinds to quit over the years and always failed miserably. I believe it is the porn that is the problem not the masturbation. It is the porn which leads to hours and hours of edging and having the death grip on the cock which is causing the erectile dysfunction and shrinkage. I am seriously addicted to live webcams and I mean seriously, I have spent a fortune on these webcams, thousands, just to satisfy must desires, but of course the desire can never be satisfied. Have you read the ebook which you can download on this website, if you haven't read it I can highly recommend it. The book explains how the pathways in the brain are changed by porn use, similar to the way they are changed by cocaine use. This knowledge is a good tool to have in the fight against this addiction because when the urges arise you can stand back and observe how the brain is working, how it is trying to trick you into doing something you don't want to do. Also have you put in place a plan give up porn. A plan/programme to live by, things put in place to fill the void not watching porn will create. This is a very hard addiction to control, that is the hard truth. I had problems with drugs in the past and I unwittingly swapped one addiction for another but drugs were easier stop than this. The root of the problem is the porn not masturbation. If you can set up a plan to quit the porn the issue with masturbation, erectile dysfunction and shrinkage will resolve themselves. You will need to have a period of abstention from masturbation but if you have erectile dysfunction you won't be walking around all day with a hard on anyway. I hope this has been some help and given you some hope. You can overcome this with the correct planning and if you have accountabiltiy that will be even better. Try starting a journal here and post and reply to post, come here when you get the urge to watch porn, encourage other guys and in doing that you will be helping yourself because when you are encouraging other guys you are talking yourself out of watching porn. I find these things are working for me. Good luck
     

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