Signs of Sexual Frustration?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Zen Meister, Sep 10, 2015.

  1. Long story short today I had a series of argument with females in regards to a problem in which I was right in, the argument dragged on for a while and they walked away from it still thinking it wasn't their fault, not sure why they're like that nor do I care anymore. But what I care about is me arguing with them in the first place, it certainly isn't something I wanted to do. Perhaps I was dealing with the effects of sexual frustrations? What are the symptoms of Sexual Frustration in male? I mean, my erections today and yesterday were practically non existent and today I had no urges. So that kinda confuses me as to why I behaved in such a way. I'm not trying to overanalyse ever situation I get into but something wasn't right today and it was more negative energy than positive one that I had in the beginning of the week. My head was heated and I was stressed and felt somewhat emotional, I literally tried to control it as I was self actualised, I knew what was happening but I couldn't control myself. What do you think?
     
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  2. Interesting post.

    In general most of the time I was far more at ease with women then when I was a PMO junkie. For sure during my reboot I had irritable days, it was an emotional roller coaster ride at times, and I would negatively overreact to things, probably just because I was missing my fix, so that may be the explanation in your case.

    I am now at the point where I am taking a hard look at my emotional issues. I get caught up in feeling worthless and trying to get people to like me by being someone else, then feeling destroyed or angry when that doesn't work. I really want to stop doing that. I have removed the addictive PMO self medication at the end of that cycle... it seems clear that the PMO cycle still remains broken from my reboot and is not fanning the flames... so my problem has other roots and has a life of it's own...
     
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  3. I see, I was wondering if this behaviour was part of the natural rebooting process of its completely something else, the only reason why Im posting it is cause Im also in some kind of flatline too, I had no erections or urges yesterday. I also can't even form proper sentences or think of the right words to say, even now my head feels like a swamp and I literally cannot communicate or explain something properly, things that can be said to drastically reduce discussion.

    I know what you're saying, males tend to act on their frustration a little differently than females although I don't fully know the symptoms of it. All I know is that males challenge women verbally and get irritated and emotional till they end up ripping her clothes of and having rough sex. but Im still unsure if what was happening was infact sexual frustration since I had a flatline for the most of the day, I fear that these people can sense the sexual frustration and they're laughing about it amongst themselves cause I heard that females smell desperation and that kind of stuff like a dog smells fear.
     
  4. A good piece of advice I got was to not take my thoughts and emotions seriously during reboot. The best way to get to the root of any emotional issues is to reboot. I have also had that dazed zombie feeling you describe. But it didn't last very long. PMO creates sexual frustration and combines it with sexual exhaustion. Be careful of the stuff your mind is telling, these is nothing to worry about. Just relax and get through your reboot as best you can. Good luck brother.
     
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    About that dazed zombie thing. I feel it too, can't help but think that once it clears I'll have the effortless stream of words in a conversation everyone speaks of...i m finding that reading helps listening to audio books helps too, trg reading 100 pages a day hopefully it'll boost your word power

    I'm also eating a combined handful of almonds cashews pumpkin seeds and walnut too
     
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